How to Observe Hanukkah (From Candle Lighting to Latke Frying)

Transform your home for the festival of lights and recall God's miracles

Hanukkah, also known as the "festival of lights," is a Jewish winter holiday that commemorates a miracle that happened many centuries ago. The name "festival of lights" refers to the tradition of lighting candles in a menorah with nine branches every night of this joyous 8-day celebration. Whether you're Jewish or non-Jewish, anyone can appreciate and celebrate the message of Hanukkah! Keep reading for ideas on how to keep Hanukkah and make it special in your home and your community.

The Best Ways to Celebrate Hanukkah

• Light the menorah.
• Say the menorah blessings after lighting.
• Sing the Hanerot Halalu hymn.
• Decorate your home for Hanukkah.
• Tell the story of the Hanukkah miracle.
• Play dreidel.

Steps

Light the menorah.

1. Light the shamash first, then use it to light the other candles on all 8 nights. On the first night of Hanukkah, put two candles in your menorah, or hanukkiah: one to act as the helper candle, or shamash, and one to represent the first night. Every night after that, add an additional candle. By the eighth and last night of the holiday, your hanukkiah should be full of candles.^[1]
   
   • Arrange the candles from right to left, but light them from left to right.
   • Light the candles at or after sunset, and let them burn for at least 30 minutes. If possible, allow them to burn out on their own.
   • Use new candles every night. Don't reuse candles that you've already lit.
   • Place the menorah in a window at the front of your home, if possible. It's even better if you can position it on the right side of the door, opposite the mezuzah on the left side (if you have one).

Recite the menorah blessings.

1. Say the menorah blessings after lighting it. You only need to recite the blessings if you’re the one lighting the menorah. On the first night, there are three blessings you’ll say to thank God for the Hanukkah miracles. On each of the remaining nights of Hanukkah, you only need to recite the first 2 blessings.^[2]
   
   • First blessing: Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav v’tsivanu l’hadlik ner shel Hanukkah. (Blessed are You, Lord our G-d, King of the universe, who has sanctified us with His commandments, and commanded us to kindle the Hanukkah light.)
   • Second blessing: Baruch atah, Adonai Eloheinu, Melech haolam, she-asah nisim la’avoteinu bayamim hahem bazman hazeh. (Blessed are You, Lord our G-d, King of the universe, who performed miracles for our forefathers in those days, at this time.)
   • Third blessing: Baruch atah adonai elohenu melech ha’olam, shehecheyanu, v’kiyimanu, v’higiyanu lazman hazeh. (Blessed are You, Lord our G‑d, King of the universe, who has granted us life, sustained us, and enabled us to reach this occasion.)

Sing the Hanerot Halalu hymn.

1. The Hanerot Halalu hymn praises God for the miracles of Hanukkah. It's a tradition to say it each night of Hanukkah. If you’re the one lighting the menorah, then you’ll recite the hymn in Hebrew. Say or sing the following:^[3]
   
   • Hebrew: Hanerot halalu anachnu madlikin, Al hanissim ve'al haniflaot, Al hatshu-ot ve'al hamilchamot, She-asita la'avoteynu, Bayamim hahem, bazman hazeh, Al yedey kohanecha hak'doshim. Vechol shmonat yemey Chanukah, Hanerot halalu kodesh hem, Ve-ein lanu reshut lehishtamesh bahem, Ela lirotam bilvad, Kedai lehodot lihalel, Al nissecha veal nifleotecha, ve-al yeshuotecha.
   • English translation: We kindle these lights to commemorate the saving acts, miracles, and wonders which You have performed for our forefathers, in those days at this time, through Your holy priests. Throughout the eight days of Chanukah, these lights are sacred, and we are not permitted to make use of them, but only to look at them, in order to offer thanks and praise to Your great Name for Your miracles, for Your wonders, and for Your salvations.

Decorate your home for Hanukkah.

1. Put up lights and set out Hanukkah-themed decor. Get into the spirit of the festival of lights by hanging string lights inside or outside your home. Plug in an electric hanukkiah for ambience (just don't use it in place of lighting real Hanukkah candles). To make your home look more colorful and festive, hang blue or silver streamers, make paper snowflakes and paste them to your windows, and set out Hanukkah-themed decorations. These might include food platters, throw pillows, and dish towels with dreidels or hanukkiahs on them.
   

Tell the story of Hanukkah.

1. Share the story of the miracle of the temple oil burning for 8 days. As you sit near your menorah and watch it glow, it may be the perfect time to explain the importance of this holiday to your children or anyone who isn’t familiar. Below is a brief overview of the miracle that started this festive tradition.^[4]
   
   • In the 1st and 2nd centuries BCE, a group of Jews called the Maccabees revolted against their Greek rulers in Judea and regained control of their holy temple.
   • When the Jews cleaned the temple and were about to start the time-honored ritual of lighting the menorah, they found they only had enough oil to burn for one day.
   • Miraculously, the oil burned for 8 days, which was just enough time for the Jews to make more. They took this miracle as a blessing from God and a sign that He wanted them to be victorious.

Recite the Al Hanisim liturgy.

1. Say it during daily prayers and grace after meals to give thanks. Whenever you pray your silent daily prayers or say grace after a meal, say, "Al hanissim, v’al hapurkan, v’al hag’vurot v’al hat’tshuot v’al hamilchamot sh’asita lavoteinu bayamim hahem baz’man hazeh." This translates to, "We thank thee also for the miracles, for the redemption, for the mighty deeds and saving acts, wrought by thee, as well as for the wars which thou didst wage for our fathers in days of old, at this season."^[5]
   
   • This special prayer thanks God for His miracles.

Play dreidel.

1. Spin a dreidel to win candy or coins. Gather as many players as you want and give everyone an equal number of game pieces, such as chocolate gelt, pennies, candies, or nuts. At the start of the game, have everyone put one of their items in the middle to form the pot. Take turns spinning the dreidel and wait until it falls over. Read the symbol on the face-up side and take the following actions:^[6]
   
   • If you spin nun (נ), then you don’t take anything from the pot.
   • If the dreidel lands on gimel (ג), then you get everything in the pot.
   • If you get hey (ה), then you take half of the pieces from the pot.
   • When you land on shin (ש), then you need to add a piece to the pot.
   • If you run out of pieces, then you’re out of the game.
   • The person who ends the game with all the pieces in the pot is the winner!

Exchange gifts with friends and family.

1. Give small gifts to mark the occasion, but only if you want to. Gift giving isn't an ancient Hanukkah tradition, but a more modern one that mimics the Christmas pastime. If you want to give your friends and family small gifts, choose any night of Hanukkah you want and pass them out after lighting the menorah.
   
   • Tip: Make giving gifts more exciting by spreading it out across all 8 nights. For example, one person in your household can give everyone the gifts they bought them the first night, another the second night, and so on.

Give gelt to children.

1. Handing out gelt to children at Hanukkah teaches them about charity. Gelt is a Yiddish word meaning "money," and it can refer either to real coins or chocolate ones wrapped in gold foil. Chocolate coins are a fun, tasty gift, but when you give the children in your household real money, encourage them to donate some of it. This will teach them the importance of charity.^[7]
   
   • Hand out a larger amount of gelt on the fourth or fifth night of Hanukkah, since it’s tradition.

Make potato latkes.

1. Potato pancakes fried in oil are a traditional Hanukkah treat. To make latkes, grate 5 potatoes and 1 onion. Put the gratings in a paper towel or a cheesecloth, and squeeze out any excess water. Combine the potato and onion mixture with 3 eggs, ⅓ cup (43 g) of flour, 1 tsp (6 g) of salt, and ¼ tsp (0.6 g) of pepper. Heat of oil in a skillet and pour some of the mixture into the pan. Cook each side of your latke for 5 minutes or until it’s golden brown.^[8]
   
   • This recipe makes 4–6 servings.
   • Top your latkes with store-bought or homemade applesauce for a delicious (and traditional) sweet and savory combo.

Make sweet sufganiyot.

1. Jam-filled doughnuts coated in powdered sugar are the perfect dessert. Make a yeast mixture by combining 2 tbsp (29.6 mL) of warm milk, 2 tbsp (25 g) of sugar, and a packet of dry active yeast. Next, combine 3 c (360 g) of flour with 1 tsp (6 g) of salt, then add the yeast mixture, 2 eggs, and 2 tbsp (28 g) of butter. Mix until the ingredients meld into a crumbly dough. Knead the dough until smooth, then let it rise for 2 hours before rolling it out to ½ in (1.3 cm) thickness. Separate the dough into 3-4 in (7.6–10.2 cm) balls and let them rise until they double in size. Then fry each doughnut for 1-2 minutes per side.^[9]
   
   • Use a piping bag or squeeze bottle to put the jelly inside each doughnut once they’re cool.
   • Coat the doughnuts with powdered sugar or cinnamon for additional sweet flavors.

Donate to charity.

1. Share the light of Hanukkah by giving to those in need. If you already give charity, or tzedakah, give a little extra each day during the holiday. This is one of the best ways to show God how much you appreciate His blessings and to share those blessings with others.^[10]
   
   • It’s okay not to give more if you’re not financially able to!
   • Instead of (or in addition to) giving money, do mitzvot (good deeds), like volunteering at a food bank or donating clothes and shoes you don't need anymore.

Read special Torah scriptures.

1. During Hanukkah, it's customary to read from Numbers 6:22-8:4. These chapters describe the dedication of the tabernacle, or the mishkan, which the Israelites used instead of a temple to worship God during their desert exile. Read them on your own or at your local synagogue in addition to the regular weekly Torah portion. You can also read the haftarah read specifically at Hanukkah. Haftarah are scriptures from the books of the prophets in the Bible, which are always read after the weekly Torah portion. The Hanukkah haftarah are Zechariah 4:1-7 and I Kings 7:40-50.^[11]
   

Attend a public menorah lighting.

1. Look online or ask your local synagogues about public menorah lightings. Usually, whoever is organizing the lighting ceremony will light a giant menorah so it’s easy for everyone to see. Afterward, attendees typically recite blessings, sing hymns, and enjoy food with one another to spread the holiday cheer.^[12]
   
   • You can find a list of Hanukkah events here.

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Tips

• Don't forget that Hanukkah is a time for fun and enjoyment, so spend time with your friends and family to celebrate.
• Hanukkah can be spelled a number of ways, including Chanukah, Chanukkah, Hanukah, and Hannukah. All are correct, as the word is a transliteration of a word in Hebrew.
• Always watch lighted candles carefully. Do not place the hanukkiah on a ledge, near the edge of a surface, or near anything that might catch on fire. Be sure that small children, long hair, and loose clothing stay away from the flames.

Related wikiHows

• Light a Chanukah Menorah
• Blow a Shofar
• Convert to Judaism

References

Quick Summary

1. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/holidays/chanukah/article_cdo/aid/103868/jewish/How-to-Light-the-Menorah.htm
2. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/holidays/chanukah/article_cdo/aid/103868/jewish/How-to-Light-the-Menorah.htm
3. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/holidays/chanukah/article_cdo/aid/600994/jewish/Haneirot-Halalu.htm
4. ↑ https://www.jewishhistory.org/the-miracle-of-chanukah/
5. ↑ https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/al-hanisim-concerning-the-miracles/
6. ↑ https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/how-to-play-dreidel/
7. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/holidays/chanukah/article_cdo/aid/597165/jewish/Chanukah-Gelt.htm
8. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/recipes/recipe_cdo/aid/103032/jewish/What-Are-Latkes-Plus-A-Simple-Potato-Latke-Recipe.htm
9. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/recipes/recipe_cdo/aid/3879370/jewish/Traditional-Sufganiyot-Jelly-Doughnuts.htm
10. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/holidays/chanukah/article_cdo/aid/603798/jewish/How-to-Celebrate-Chanukah.htm
11. ↑ https://reformjudaism.org/jewish-holidays/hanukkah/hanukkah-customs-and-rituals
12. ↑ https://www.chabad.org/holidays/chanukah/article_cdo/aid/4575427/jewish/8-Old-and-New-Chanukah-Traditions.htm

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165+ "You Are Special" Quotes For Friends, Family, Partners & More

The best “you are special” quotes to uplift and inspire others

Letting someone know they’re special can instantly brighten their day and make them feel valued. In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of “you are special” quotes and messages to promote love and support, whether you’re texting a friend, crush, partner, or loved one. We’ll also cover the importance of telling someone they’re special, plus provide tips on how to increase your self-confidence!

Unique & Empowering “You Are Special” Quotes

• For Her: “You’re not just special…you’re irreplaceable. My love for you is forever.”
• For Him: “Being with you makes the mundane feel magical. That’s how special you are.”
• For Family: “Families are built on love, and you are the glue that holds us all together.”
• For Friends: “Good friends are rare, but you? You’re one of a kind!”
• For Yourself: “You are enough. Be proud of the person you are becoming.”

Steps

Best “You Are Special to Me” Quotes

1. Remind someone of their skills and talents with a thoughtful quote. Whether someone’s going through a tough time or just needs a boost of confidence, sending a “you are special” message is one of the best ways to lift their spirits. Here are some touching quotes to reassure someone they’re unique, talented, and totally capable of achieving what they want in life:
   
   • “The world is full of many wonders, you are one of them.” —Matshona Dhliwayo
   • “You are special. You’re the most special person in the world to me.” —R. K. Lilley
   • “You are one of a kind. You shine and sparkle different from others.” ―Hiral Nagda
   • “You are special, and the world needs your unique voice and perspective.” —Brené Brown
   • “To the world you may be one person; but to one person you may be the world.” —Dr. Seuss
   • “You are special, not because of what you have, but because of who you are.” —Max Lucado
   • “You are special because you are capable of making a difference in the world.” —Lailah Gifty Akita
   • “You are special, and your presence in the world matters more than you know.” —Glennon Doyle
   • “Believe in yourself, for you are special and capable of achieving great things.” —Roy T. Bennett
   • “You are special because you possess an unbreakable spirit that can overcome any obstacle.” —Nikki Banas
   • “Though you are as a drop in the ocean, without you, the universe would be empty.” ―Matshona Dhliwayo
   • “You are special because you possess a spark of creativity that has the power to change the world.” —Ken Robinson
   • “You are a special flower blossoming among many; without you, the garden is incomplete.” ―Matshona T. Dhliwayo
   • “You are special because you have the power to write your own story and determine your own destiny.” —Amy Poehler
   • “You are special because you have the ability to make someone feel seen, heard, and understood.” —Thich Nhat Hanh
   • “You are special because you possess a combination of qualities and talents that no one else in the world has.” —John C. Maxwell
   • “Every single person is sacred. Sacred means special, precious, a treasure of true beauty. That means you.” —Amy Leigh Mercree
   • “You have something special. You have greatness in you. You have the ability to do more than you can ever begin to imagine.” —Les Brown
   • “If you could look into my heart, how quickly you would see the special place you hold there and how much you mean to me.” —Ron Tranmer
   • “If I could give you one thing in life, I would give you the ability to see yourself through my eyes, only then would you realize how special you are to me.” —Unknown
   • “Words fall short whenever I want to tell you how special you are to me, but all I can say is that my world is full of smiles whenever I think of you.” —Natalie Anderson
   • “There is something special about you. You’ve got the it factor; a talent or skill that is unique to you, and you have a responsibility to your life to bring it out.” —Germany Kent
   • “Every single thing you do matters. You have been created as one of a kind. You have been created in order to make a difference. You have within you the power to change the world.” —Andy Andrews
   • “You are a marvel. You are unique. In all the years that have passed, there has never been another child like you. Your legs, your arms, your clever fingers, the way you move. You may become a Shakespeare, a Michelangelo, a Beethoven. You have the capacity for anything.” —Pablo Casals

“You Are Special” Quotes for Her

1. Use a romantic quote to tell your partner she’s one in a million. Expressing the quirks and little things you love about your partner is incredibly sweet and romantic. If you’re not sure what to say, you can always share the words of a world-renowned writer, poet, or playwright. Here are some “you are special” quotes to make the woman in your life feel cherished:
   
   • “You’re nothing short of my everything.” —Joseph Campbell
   • “You are, and always have been, my dream.” —Nicholas Sparks
   • “You’re not just special…you’re irreplaceable. My love for you is forever.”
   • “You have a heart so rare and beautiful, and that makes you truly special to me.”
   • “And in her smile I see something more beautiful than the stars.” —Across the Universe
   • “You must have magical powers because every time I look at you, the world disappears.”
   • “Some people make the world beautiful just by being in it. You, my darling, are one of them.”
   • “Stars are special because they light up the night sky. You are special because you light up my life.”
   • “You are special to me in ways words can never describe. You are my heart, my soul, my everything.”
   • “The brightest star holds no comparison to the light you bring into my world. You’re absolutely breathtaking.”
   • “You are the spark in my life, the reason behind my happiest smiles, and the most special person I know.”
   • “The way you light up a room is a masterpiece in motion. You have a gift for enchanting everyone you meet.”
   • “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” —Maya Angelou
   • “If I had a flower for every time I thought of you…I could walk through my garden forever.” —Claudia Adrienne Grandi
   • “You’re the kind of special that makes my heart race, my thoughts wander, and my hands…well let’s just say they’d rather be on you.”
   • “I saw that you were perfect, and so I loved you. Then I saw that you were not perfect and I loved you even more.” —Angelita Lim
   • “You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and most beautiful person I have ever known and even that is an understatement.” —F. Scott Fitzgerald
   • “Of all that I see and hear, and can only believe that Heaven has sent down an angel to me, whose radiance is intended to brighten my life.” —Prince Albert
   • “A day without you is like a day without sunshine. A life without you is like a life without music. You are the sunshine on my face and the music in my heart.” —Alfiya Shaliheen
   • “Although we are miles apart, the thought and touch of you lives within my heart. It is for that reason my dear you will always feel near, even though we are thousands of miles apart.” —Andrew Guzaldo

“You Are Special” Quotes for Him

1. Send a loving quote to remind your partner that he’s special. Everyone wants to feel valued, even if they don’t seem super romantic. If there’s a special guy in your life, send a thoughtful quote that conveys all the wonderful things he brings to the table. You could say he’s taught you how to love, makes daily life feel magical, or anything else your heart desires. Here are some romantic “you are special” quotes for your husband, fiance, or boyfriend:
   
   • “In a world full of ordinary, you are my extraordinary.”
   • “If I know what love is, it is because of you.” —Hermann Hesse
   • “I love you down to your every quirk and flaw.” —Mélanie Berliet
   • “Being with you makes the mundane feel magical. That’s how special you are.”
   • “From sunrise conversations to sunset dreams, you’re the center of my universe.”
   • “For the guy who brings sunshine on my cloudiest days, you are undeniably special.”
   • “In this big world, I found my little paradise with you. You light up my life like no other.”
   • “The water shines only by the sun. And it is you who are my sun.” —Charles de Leusse
   • “Whatever it is that makes you the person you are – that’s what I love. All of it.” —Amy Vincent
   • “You’re so special that I’d cancel plans, lose sleep, and maybe even give up coffee…all for you.”
   • “You’re my best friend, my greatest adventure, and the love of my life. No one compares to you.”
   • “Every day with you is a reminder that I have found someone truly rare, truly special, and truly mine.”
   • “Out of everyone in this world, my heart chose you. That makes you the most special person in my life.”
   • “When life gives you someone very special, you don’t have to dream anymore.” —M.F. Moonzajer
   • “I swear I couldn’t love you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow.” —Leo Christopher
   • “In this game of life, having you on my team makes me feel like I’ve already won. You’re my secret weapon.”
   • “I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I’ve ever had.” —Nicholas Sparks
   • “The real lover is the man who can thrill you by kissing your forehead or smiling into your eyes or just staring into space.” —Marilyn Monroe
   • “She loved him because he had brought her back to life. She had been like a caterpillar in a cocoon, and he had drawn her out and shown her that she was a butterfly.” —Ken Follett
   • “It is three at night. I have something to say. You are so valuable. You shine out. You are a magic star. You are a body of blood made beautiful. How I admire, sit back and adore you. How thirsty I am for that. How you feed me.” —Anne Sexton

“You Are Special” Quotes for Friends

1. Highlight your friend’s best qualities to make them feel special. Whether you recently saw your friend or it’s been a while, you can make them feel supported by sending a “you are special” message. It’s a great way to remind them that they’re valued and appreciated, strengthening your bond no matter where they are.
   
   • “Good friends are rare, but you? You’re one of a kind!”
   • “Your ability to uplift others is a testament to the beauty of your soul.”
   • “You bring such radiant energy into the world, making it a brighter place.”
   • “You’re not just my friend…you’re family. And that makes you truly special to me.”
   • “Friendships come and go, but a special friend like you stays in the heart forever.”
   • “You’re the kind of friend everyone wishes for…caring, genuine, and irreplaceable.”
   • “Just a reminder: You matter. You’re special. You’re loved. You’re appreciated. Always.”
   • “You’re not just a friend…you’re a daily reminder that good people still exist in the world.”
   • “Life wouldn’t be the same without you. You make every moment brighter just by being you!”
   • “True friends are like diamonds–bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style” —Nicole Richie
   • “A million people could walk into my life, but none could ever replace you. You’re truly one of a kind!”
   • “You bring so much joy and happiness into my life, and I hope you know how much you mean to me.”
   • “The world is a better place because you’re in it. Please don’t forget how much you’re valued and loved!”
   • You’re so special because you listen without judgment, laugh without hesitation, and love without limits.”
   • “You have a way of making people feel loved, seen, and heard. That’s what makes you such a special friend.”
   • “You are special because you bring joy, laughter, and positivity into my life. I’m so lucky to call you my friend!”
   • “A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself–and especially to feel, or not feel.” —Jim Morrison
   • “Having you as a friend is like having a personal cheerleader, life coach, and comedian all in one–how lucky am I?”
   • “You’re the type of friend who turns ordinary moments into unforgettable memories. That makes you so special to me.”
   • “Fake friends are like shadows; always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour. True friends are like stars, you don’t always see them but they are always there.” —Habeeb Akande

“You Are Special” Quotes for Family

1. Let your family member know they’re absolutely irreplaceable. It’s easy to take your family for granted sometimes, but having loyal and supportive loved ones can make a world of a difference. Tell your parent, sibling, or extended family member that they’re a pivotal part of your life, and that their presence means everything to you. Here are some loving quotes to convey care and gratitude:
   
   • “Some people are worth melting for.” —Frozen
   • “The family is one of nature’s masterpieces.” —George Santayana
   • “Family is the most important thing in the world.” —Princess Diana
   • “Families are built on love, and you are the glue that holds us all together.”
   • “Without a family, man, alone in the world, trembles with the cold.” —Andre Maurois
   • “Being related to you is one of the greatest gifts of my life. You are special beyond words.”
   • “Family is where love begins, and you are the heart of ours. You are so special to all of us.”
   • “There is no friendship, no love, like that of the parent for the child.” —Henry Ward Beecher
   • “My heroes were my parents, I can’t see having anyone else as my heroes.” —Michael Jordan
   • “You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.” —Desmond Tutu
   • “You are more than family…you are my biggest blessing. Life wouldn’t be the same without you.”
   • “When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses.” —Joyce Brothers
   • “You are the heart of our family, the glue that holds us together, and the love that makes it all worthwhile.”
   • “Having a place to go is a home. Having someone to live is a family. Having both is a blessing.” —Donna Hedges
   • “You are the reason our family feels like home. Your love, warmth, and compassion make you truly one of a kind.”
   • “My family is my life, and everything else comes second as far as what’s important to me.” —Michael Imperioli
   • “The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other’s life.” —Richard Bach
   • “Life may change, but family is forever. No matter what happens, you’ll always be someone incredibly special to me.”
   • “Family means love, laughter, and always having someone to count on. You are the special person that makes us stronger every day.”
   • “Families are the compass that guides us. They are the inspiration to reach great heights, and our comfort when we occasionally falter.” —Brad Henry

“You Are Special” Quotes to Inspire Self-Love

1. Practice positive affirmations to increase your confidence and self-esteem. If you tend to have negative thoughts or think poorly of yourself, using affirmations is a great way to turn things around and change your perspective. Just repeat any of the following quotes aloud, several times a day, to help you believe in yourself and inspire self-love:
   
   • “Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.” —Coco Chanel
   • “Don’t sell yourself short; you are your best asset.” ―Matshona Dhliwayo
   • “You are enough. Be proud of the person you are becoming.” —Tara Westover
   • “One of the most important things you can accomplish is just being yourself.” —Dwayne Johnson
   • “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” —Buddha
   • “By being yourself you put something wonderful in the world that was not there before.” —Edwin Elliot
   • “Choose, every day, to forgive yourself. You are human, flawed, and most of all worthy of love.” —Alison Malee
   • “Don’t dim your light to make others comfortable. Be proud of who you are and shine brightly.” —Michelle Obama
   • “Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” —Beyoncé
   • “Self-love has very little to do with how you feel about your outer self. It’s about accepting all of yourself.” —Tyra Banks
   • “The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.” —C. JoyBell C.
   • “Not only do self-love and love of others go hand in hand but ultimately they are indistinguishable.” ―M. Scott Peck
   • “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are.” —Brené Brown
   • “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
   • “We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and our adventure to discover our own special light.” —Mary Dunbar
   • “Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you. Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion. Set your life on fire.” —Rumi
   • “Butterflies can’t see their wings. They can’t see how truly beautiful they are, but everyone else can. People are like that as well.” —Naya Rivera
   • “Self love is an ocean and your heart is a vessel. Make it full, and any excess will spill over into the lives of the people you hold dear. But you must come first.” ―Beau Taplin
   • “Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go do that. Because what the world needs are people who have come alive.” —Harold Whitman
   • “My mission, should I choose to accept it, is to find peace with exactly who and what I am. To take pride in my thoughts, my appearance, my talents, my flaws and to stop this incessant worrying that I can’t be loved as I am.” ―Anaïs Nin

“You Are Special” Quotes to Celebrate Uniqueness

1. Encourage someone to share their unique gifts with the world. In a world that pressures conformity, being different is beautiful and part of creativity and innovation. By reminding someone (or yourself) that being unique is a strength, you’re telling them to embrace who they are and share their precious talents with others. Here are some quotes to highlight individuality:
   
   • “Why fit in when you were born to stand out?” —Dr. Seuss
   • “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” —Oscar Wilde
   • “You are not one in a million, you are one in 7.7 billion.” —Matshona Dhliwayo
   • “It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation.” —Herman Melville
   • “I’ve always loved the idea of not being what people expect me to be.” —Dita Von Teese
   • “What makes you special is you, and you are different from the next person.” —Janet Jackson
   • “Be different so that people can see you clearly amongst the crowds.” —Mehmet Murat İldan
   • “Different is good, and being different is what makes us stand out in the world.” —Natalya Neidhart
   • “I thought not fitting in was something I had to fix. Now I see it as my superpower.” —Maxime Lagacé
   • “Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.” —Judy Garland
   • “So you’re a little weird? Work it! A little different? OWN it! Better to be a nerd than one of the herd!” —Mandy Hale
   • “Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric.” —Bertrand Russell
   • “You have a one of a kind gift to offer this world, and you are unique in the entire history of creation.” —Wayne Dyer
   • “The most incredible beauty and the most satisfying way of life come from affirming your own uniqueness.” —Jane Fonda
   • “What sets you apart can sometimes feel like a burden and it’s not. And a lot of the time, it’s what makes you great.” —Emma Stone
   • “Each one of us has different strengths…This does not make you weak. This makes you special and unique.” —Christine E. Szymanski
   • “It’s all about distinguishing yourself; never blend in. Express the unique qualities that make up who you are; that’s what makes you an icon.” —Nipsey Hussle
   • “When you embrace your difference, your DNA, your look or heritage or religion or your unusual name, that’s when you start to shine.” —Bethenny Frankel
   • “Never be afraid of being yourself. Be different; be unique; be a mystery. Always remember that unique people are the ones who changed history.” ―Mouloud Benzadi
   • “We don’t do things the same way everyone else does. We relish being different. We see that difference as an element that makes us more compelling.” —Reggie Fils-Aimé
   • “I find that the very things that I get criticized for, which is usually being different and just doing my own thing and just being original, is the very thing that’s making me successful.” —Shania Twain
   • “Never forget that you are one of a kind. Never forget that if there weren’t any need for you in all your uniqueness to be on this earth, you wouldn’t be here in the first place.” —R. Buckminster Fuller

“You Are Special” Quotes to Express Appreciation

1. Specify why you’re thankful toward someone to craft a genuine message. Saying “thank you” is one of the easiest ways to make someone feel special, whether you send it in a text or physical card. Highlight the moments they’ve supported you, or mention their best qualities to really give them their flowers. According to etiquette coach Tami Claytor, “you want to be very specific” when thanking someone and express why you appreciate what they've done or who they are.^[1]
   
   • “I am who I am because of you.” —Nicholas Sparks
   • “If I know what love is, it is because of you.” —Hermann Hesse
   • “Having you in my life is one of the greatest gifts I’ve ever received.”
   • “Thank you for accepting me as I am, with my virtues and defects.” —Jenni Rivera
   • “Thank you for your words of support and love. I am blessed to have you in my life.”
   • “Every moment with you is a reminder of how beautiful life can be. Thank you for being you.”
   • “When I think of you, I think of kindness, wisdom, and love. Thanks for being you.” —Sam Crow
   • “The kindness, love, and support you give are special gifts. You are deeply valued and appreciated.”
   • “When I was thinking of you, I realized all the positive influences you have in my life, thank you.” —B. Rivers
   • “The beauty of your soul shines brighter than all the stars in the sky. Thank you for being an incredible human being.”
   • “You don’t have to do anything extraordinary to be special. You already are just by being yourself. Thanks for everything.”
   • “Some people leave footprints on our hearts forever, and you are one of them. I appreciate you more than words could ever describe.”
   • “Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” —Marcel Proust
   • “In life, there is always that special person who shapes who you are, who helps to determine the person you become.” —Molly Ringwald
   • “You might not always see it, but you are truly special. Your laughter and light brightens the lives of so many, including mine. Thank you.”
   • “You have influenced my life in such a positive way words cannot express my appreciation. You are truly an inspiration.” —Catherine Pulsipher
   • “Some people arrive and make such a beautiful impact on your life, you can barely remember what life was like without them.” —Anna Taylor
   • “I appreciate you more because of the road I’ve traveled. My story brought me to you and I wouldn’t revise a word of my past if it led me anywhere but to your door.” –Aaron Polson
   • “You changed my life without even trying, and I don't think I could ever tell you how much you mean to me. I can't imagine what things would be like if I hadn't met you.” —Steve Maraboli
   • “I don’t think you will ever fully understand how you’ve touched my life and made me who I am. I don’t think you could ever know just how truly special you are that even on the darkest nights you are my brightest star.” —Erica Jong

Benefits of Telling Someone They’re Special

1. Telling someone they’re special can strengthen your relationship. When you tell someone they’re special, it can boost their mood, make them feel valued, and deepen your bond. This leads to greater emotional intimacy and trust, which can help the two of you feel more connected. Here are some other benefits of telling someone they’re special:^[2]
   • Boosts their self-esteem: Knowing they’re special can make them feel more confident and secure in themself, improving their well-being.
   • Makes them feel appreciated: Thanking someone is one of the best ways to express gratitude, fostering a strong sense of connection, trust, and mutual respect.
   • Strengthens your relationship: A simple compliment can make someone feel seen and heard, reassuring them they’re an important person in your life.
   • Inspires them to achieve more: Feeling special and worthy can push them to believe in themself and achieve their wildest dreams.

How to Embrace Yourself & Be Confident

1. Believe in yourself and embrace imperfection to build confidence. Accepting your authentic self and being confident is all about understanding who you are. What are your strengths and passions? What are your core values and beliefs? What are things you can work on? It’s important to treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would give to a friend, and learn from your mistakes instead of letting them define you. Here are some other tips to increase your self-esteem and confidence:^[3]
   
   • Practice self-care: Take good care of yourself by eating a healthy and balanced diet, exercising regularly, drinking enough water, and getting proper sleep.
   • Set personal goals: Break a large goal into smaller, realistic steps to help you create the life you want. Take action, instead of waiting for things to change, and watch your self-confidence skyrocket!
   • Engage in positive self-talk: Replace negative thoughts with positive or neutral statements. You could say, “I believe in myself,” “I know I’m capable,” or “I’m proud of how far I’ve come.”
   • Step out of your comfort zone: Try new things to help you realize everything you’re capable of. You could start by talking to strangers, reading a book you’ve held off, or running a marathon.
   • Avoid comparing yourself to others: Limit your social media use to help you focus on your real life. Remember, everyone has their own path, and social media is a reel of highlights!
   • Surround yourself with supportive people: Having a good support system can help you focus on your best qualities when you’re feeling down. Make plans with friends and family members who make you feel good about yourself.

References

1. ↑ [v161576_b01]. 30 September 2020.
2. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/reflect-and-reset/202309/the-vital-importance-of-showing-up-for-others-and-ourselves
3. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/202305/6-proven-ways-to-build-confidence

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115+ Brain Teasers For Adults & Kids (With Answers!)

Plus, prep for job interviews with possible brain-teasing questions

Calling all brainiacs! It’s always a good time to up your intellect, and flexing your riddle-busting muscles is a great way to keep your mind as sharp as can be. We’ve put together the ultimate list of mind twisters and brain teasers—from funny riddles to kid-friendly brain busters and complex mind teasers. Keep reading for our most mind-blowing questions 🧠🤯

The Best Brain Teaser Questions (& Answers)

1. What is faster, hot or cold? You can catch a cold, so hot is faster.
2. What word has three double letters in a row? Bookkeeper.
3. What kind of band doesn’t play music? A rubber band.
4. What loses its head in the morning and gets it back at night? A pillow.
5. What building has the most stories? The library.

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Funny Brain Teaser Questions

1. Tickle your funny bone with some hilarious brain teasers. Who said that getting smarter has to be boring? These mind teasers are as tricky as they are chuckle-inducing, but at least you know you’ll be coming away just a little bit smarter and a lotta bit gigglier.^[1]
   
   • Question: What can you put in a bucket to make it weigh less?
     • Answer: A hole.
   • Question: What is faster, hot or cold?
     • Answer: You can catch a cold, so hot is definitely faster.
   • Question: What kind of running also means walking?
     • Answer: Running out of gas.
   • Question: Who is bigger: Mr. Bigger, Mrs. Bigger, or their baby?
     • Answer: Their baby, because he is a little bigger.
   • Question: What has a lot of teeth but can't bite?
     • Answer: A comb.
   • Question: When two snakes get married, what do their towels say?
     • Answer: Hiss and hers.
   • Question: What has a bottom at the top?
     • Answer: Your legs.
   • Question: What five-letter word becomes shorter when you add two letters to it?
     • Answer: Short.
   • Question: Which side of a chicken has more feathers?
     • Answer: The outside.
   • Question: How can a man who shaves many times a day still have a long beard?
     • Answer: He’s a barber.
   • Question: Which tire doesn’t move when your car turns left?
     • Answer: The spare tire.
   • Question: What kind of tree can you carry in your hand?
     • Answer: A palm tree.
   • Question: How far can a bear run into the woods?
     • Answer: Halfway. After that, he’s running out of the woods.

Hard Brain Teaser Questions

1. Give your brain its toughest test with these difficult mind teasers. If you’re up for a challenge of epic proportions, you’ve definitely come to the right place! These are the most difficult mind teasers that we could muster up, so if you can answer them correctly…you may want to go ahead and get your Mensa application ready.^[2]
   
   • Question: What is special about these words: job, polish, herb?
     • Answer: They are pronounced differently when the first letter is capitalized.
   • Question: Turn me on my side and I'm everything. Cut me in half and I'm nothing. What am I?
     • Answer: The number 8.
   • Question: What word has three double letters in a row?
     • Answer: Bookkeeper.
   • Question: What is unique about the number 8,549,176,320?
     • Answer: Each number, zero through nine, is listed in alphabetical order.
   • Question: What is made and bought by people who have no use for it, while the person who uses it can't see it or feel it?
     • Answer: A coffin.
   • Question: What is yours, but everyone else you know uses it?
     • Answer: Your name.
   • Question: If I am holding a bee, what do I have in my eye?
     • Answer: Beauty. (It's a play on the famous proverb, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder”).
   • Question: What can go up a chimney when down but can't go down a chimney when up?
     • Answer: An umbrella.
   • Question: What runs but never walks, has a bed but never sleeps, a mouth that never speaks, and a head that never weeps?
     • Answer: A river.
   • Question: A cowboy rides into town on Friday, stays for two nights, and leaves on Friday. How is this possible?
     • Answer: His horse is named Friday.
   • Question: What can fill an entire room without taking up any space?
     • Answer: Light
   • Question: What word's first two letters signify a man, first three letters signify a woman, first four letters signify a great man, while the whole word signifies a great woman?
     • Answer: Heroine.
   • Question: Two men wearing backpacks are in a desert. One is dead. The man who is alive has his backpack open, and the guy who is dead has his backpack closed. What's in the dead man’s backpack?
     • Answer: A parachute.

Easy Brain Teaser Questions

1. Start simple with some novice-level brain teaser questions. There’s nothing wrong with sometimes taking the easier road in life (or riddles), and while these mind teasers may be easier, they’re still pretty brain-busting! However, these brain teasers will definitely be a good fit if you’re just looking to have some fun without working your noggin too hard.^[3]
   
   • Question: You live in a one-story house made of redwood. What color are the stairs?
     • Answer: There aren't any stairs. It's a one-story house!
   • Question: If an electric train is heading north, which way is the smoke going?
     • Answer: There is no smoke. It's an electric train.
   • Question: I have two newly minted coins in my pocket. One isn't a nickel, but they total 30 cents. What are the coins?
     • Answer: A quarter and a nickel—one isn’t a nickel but the other is.
   • Question: What kind of band doesn’t play music?
     • Answer: A rubber band.
   • Question: I'm not psychic, but I can always predict the score of any baseball game before it starts. How do I do this?
     • Answer: The score is always zero to zero before the game starts!
   • Question: Before Mt. Everest was discovered, what was the highest mountain in the world?
     • Answer: Mt. Everest was still the highest mountain in the world—it just hadn't been discovered yet.
   • Question: What has a lot of keys but can’t open a lock?
     • Answer: A piano.
   • Question: A plane crashes on the border of the U.S. and Mexico. Where are the survivors buried?
     • Answer: You don't bury survivors!
   • Question: There are 12 months in a year, and seven months have 31 days. How many months have 28 days?
     • Answer: All of them.
   • Question: What can you hold without ever touching it?
     • Answer: Your breath.
   • Question: I won't cry if you cut me, but you will! What am I?
     • Answer: An onion.
   • Question: What 2 things can you never eat for breakfast?
     • Answer: Lunch and dinner.
   • Question: You’re in a power outage with only one match. Do you light the candle, the oil lamp, or the fire first?
     • Answer: You light the match first.

Mathematical Brain Teaser Questions

1. Kick the calculator to the curb and try these math-related brain teasers. We can’t promise that these mathematical brain teasers will be as easy as pi, but we’re certain that you’re up to the challenge! After all, if you can master maths, you can definitely master some exponentially excellent mind teasers.^[4]
   
   • Question: Using only addition, how can you add eight 8s to get the number 1,000?
     • Answer: 888 + 88 + 8 + 8 + 8 = 1,000.
   • Question: Mr. and Mrs. Smith have six sons, who each have one sister. How many people are in the Smith family?
     • Answer: Nine. Each brother shares the same sister, so there are six boys and one girl, plus Mr. and Mrs. Smith.
   • Question: How do you make the number 7 even without using addition, subtraction, multiplication, or division?
     • Answer: Drop the "s" and "seven" becomes "even."
   • Question: How can you use the numbers 2, 3, 4, and 5 and the symbols + and = to make a true math equation?
     • Answer: 2 + 5 = 3 + 4.
   • Question: A farmer has 24 cows. All but seven of them ran away. How many does he have left?
     • Answer: Seven.
   • Question: What 4-digit number multiplied by 4 gives the same number in reverse?
     • Answer: When multiplied by 4, the number 2178 is 8712.
   • Question: Which weighs more: 16 ounces of gold or a pound of feathers?
     • Answer: They weigh the same. 16 ounces = 1 pound, no matter what's being weighed.
   • Question: How can 6 + 12 = 6?
     • Answer: When you think in terms of time. 6 a.m. + 12 hours = 6 p.m.
   • Question: What three numbers give the same result whether they're added or multiplied together?
     • Answer: 1, 2 and 3 (1 + 2 + 3 = 6 and 1 x 2 x 3 = 6).
   • Question: What can you place between 5 and 6 to make the outcome greater than 5 but less than 6?
     • Answer: A decimal point.
   • Question: Chet purchased a pair of pants and a shirt for $150. The pants were $100 more than the shirt. How did each item cost?
     • Answer: The pants cost $125, the shirt $25.
   • Question: The ages of a mother and his daughter add up to 55. If you reverse the digits of the mother's age, you get the daughter's age. How old are they?
     • Answer: The mother is 41, and the daughter is 14.

Brain Teaser Questions for Kids

1. Challenge a growing mind with a kid-friendly brain teaser question. We can’t let the grown-ups have all the fun! Kids also deserve a chance to get big-brained with some whimsically wacky mind teasers. And if you’re an adult, you can try your hand at these brain teasers as well…are you really smarter than a 5th grader?^[5]
   
   • Question: What is so fragile that saying its name breaks it?
     • Answer: Silence.
   • Question: I’m tall when I’m young, and I’m short when I’m old, what am I?
     • Answer: A candle.
   • Question: What is as big as you are and yet does not weigh anything?
     • Answer: Your shadow.
   • Question: What word is spelled wrong in the dictionary?
     • Answer: Wrong.
   • Question: What can travel around the world while staying in a corner?
     • Answer: A postage stamp.
   • Question: What can run but not walk, has a mouth but never talks, has a head but never weeps, has a bed but never sleeps?
     • Answer: A river.
   • Question: Do you know what you can hold without ever touching it?
     • Answer: Your breath.
   • Question: Flat as a leaf, round as a ring; Has two eyes, can't see a thing. What is it?
     • Answer: A button.
   • Question: Where can you find roads without cars, forests without trees, and cities without houses (without people)?
     • Answer: A map.
   • Question: What loses its head in the morning and gets it back at night?
     • Answer: A pillow.
   • Question: Which side of a turkey has the most feathers?
     • Answer: The outside.
   • Question: What always goes to bed with its shoes on?
     • Answer: A horse.

Brain Teaser Questions for Adults

1. Stump friends and colleagues with adult-level mind teasers. In theory, a grown-up person comes with a grown-up brain…although we know that that’s not always the case, we’ve definitely upped the ante to make these mind teasers just a little bit more difficult. Put that earned wisdom to use to solve each and every one of these brain-busters!^[6]
   
   • Question: If you drop me I’m sure to crack, but give me a grin and I’ll always grin back. What am I?
     • Answer: A mirror.
   • Question: What begins and ends with an E but only has one letter?
     • Answer: An envelope.
   • Question: What building has the most stories?
     • Answer: The library.
   • Question: Give me food, and I will live. Give me water, and I will die. What am I?
     • Answer: Fire.
   • Question: In 1990, a person is 15 years old. In 1995, that same person is 10 years old. How can this be?
     • Answer: They were born in 2005 BC.
   • Question: If a sundial has the fewest moving parts of any timepiece, what has the most?
     • Answer: An hourglass. It has thousands of grains of sand.
   • Question: I'm always in you, sometimes on you, but if I surround you, I can kill you. What am I?
     • Answer: Water.
   • Question: Two fathers and two sons are in a car, yet there are only three people in the car. How is this possible?
     • Answer: They are grandfather, father, and son.
   • Question: What runs through cities and towns, forest and fields, but never moves?
     • Answer: Roads.
   • Question: Where does today come before yesterday?
     • Answer: The dictionary.
   • Question: First, I threw away the outside and cooked the inside. Then I ate the outside and threw away the inside. What did I eat?
     • Answer: Corn on the cob.
   • Question: A man is standing on one side of a river, and his dog is on the other. The man calls his dog, who crosses the river without swimming and without using a boat or a bridge. How did the dog get across?
     • Answer: The river was frozen.
   • Question: Sometimes they're green, sometimes they're brown, and both of these times make me frown. But in between, for a little while, they're perfect and yellow and make me smile. What are they?
     • Answer: Bananas.

Brain Teaser Questions for Job Interviews

1. Guesstimation Brain Teasers{endbold} During a job interview, a guesstimation brain teaser aims to assess your ability to make an informed estimation—essentially an educated guess—without any presented facts or concrete data. Also known as a “market-sizing question,” it’s more important to approach these questions practically and calmly than to get a completely correct answer. Here are some practice guesstimation brain teasers:^[7]
   • Question: An apple costs 40 cents, a banana costs 60 cents and a grapefruit costs 80 cents. How much does a pear cost?
     • Answer: 40 cents. The price of each fruit is calculated by multiplying the number of vowels by 20 cents.
   • Question: How much revenue does the average laundromat make per year?
     • Answer: $146,000 per year. Assuming that the average laundromat has about 20 washing machines, is open 365 days per year, and makes about $20 in revenue per machine per day.
   • Question: How many golf balls fit in a Boeing 737?
     • Answer: 23,800 to 31,640 golf balls. Assuming that the cabin volume is 3,000 – 4,000 cubic feet, golf ball volume is 2.5 cubic inches, and packing efficiency is 70%.
   • Question: How many gas stations are in the U.S.?
     • Answer: 132,400 gas stations. Assuming that the U.S. population is 331 million and one gas station per 2,500 residents.
2. Logical Brain Teasers{endbold} A logical brain teaser seeks to assess your hand at deductive reasoning and creative problem-solving. You might be presented with a situation without an easy path forward, and you’ll have to think outside the box in order to come up with a satisfactory solution. Here are some practice logical brain teasers:
   • Question: What day follows the day before yesterday if two days from now will be Sunday?
     • Answer: Thursday. “Two days from now will be Sunday,” so today is Friday. The “day that follows the day before yesterday" is just yesterday, which would be Thursday.
   • Question: An explorer found a silver coin marked 7 B.C. He was told it was a forgery. Why?
     • Answer: The concept of “B.C.” (Before Christ) didn’t exist until long after 7 B.C., so the coin must be a forgery.
   • Question: If five cats can catch five mice in five minutes, how long will it take one cat to catch one mouse?
     • Answer: 5 minutes. If 5 cats can catch 5 mice in 5 minutes, then each cat can catch 1 mouse in the same 5 minutes. Therefore, it will take 1 cat the same amount of time (5 minutes) to catch 1 mouse.
   • Question: Five people were eating apples, A finished before B, but behind C. D finished before E, but behind B. What was the finishing order?
     • Answer: C, A, B, D, E.
   • Question: Why are manhole covers round?
     • Answer: A round shape can’t fall through its own opening, so it's easier and safer to fit it into place. The round shape is also easier to manufacture and move.
3. Mathematical Brain Teasers{endbold} Unsurprisingly, a mathematical brain teaser tests your quantitative reasoning ability—which may or may not directly involve math. More often, these questions focus on probability and complex-problem solving, which may require you to approach a problem in an unconventional way. Here are some practice mathematical brain teasers:^[8]
   • Question: What is half of two plus two?
     • Answer: 3. Half of two is 1, plus 2 is 3.
   • Question: How do you go from 98 to 720 using just one letter?
     • Answer: Add an "x" (or multiplication symbol) between the figures 90 and 8. 90 x 8 = 720
   • Question: How many 9's are there between 1 and 100?
     • Answer: 20.
   • Question: When my father was 31 I was 8. Now he is twice as old as me. How old am I?
     • Answer: 23.
   • Question: “In two years I know, I'll be twice as old as five years ago,” said Tom. How old is Tom?
     • Answer: 12.
4. Illusion Brain Teasers{endbold} The whole point of an illusion brain teaser is to try and trick you—fun! In all seriousness, these questions ask you to think critically and implore you to take your time to fully analyze what you’re being asked. You’ll have to challenge your assumptions and show that you won’t be easily caught off guard or rush to a conclusion. Here are some practice illusion brain teasers:
   • Question: A farmer has 17 sheep and all but 9 die. How many are left?
     • Answer: 9 sheep. This is a trick question—they gave you the answer already!
   • Question: How many two-cent stamps are there in a dozen?
     • Answer: 12 stamps. No multiplication is needed!
   • Question: If a doctor gives you three pills, telling you to take one every half hour, how many minutes will pass from taking the first pill to the last pill?
     • Answer: 60 minutes. There are only two 30-minute intervals.
   • Question: Is it possible for a man in California to marry his widow's sister?
     • Answer: No. The words “his widow” signify that the man has already died.
   • Question: Two U.S. coins add up to 30 cents. If one of them is not a nickel, what are the two coins?
     • Answer: A nickel (5 cents), and a quarter (25 cents). This question makes you believe that neither coin is a nickel, which isn’t the case.
5. Riddle Brain Teasers{endbold} Riddle brain teasers are a favorite because everyone is somewhat familiar with how they work. In order to solve a riddle, you have to think creatively and laterally in order to solve a problem or find a solution. Here are some practice riddle brain teasers:^[9]
   • Question: What has keys but can’t open locks?
     • Answer: A piano.
   • Question: I speak without a mouth and hear without ears. I have nobody, but I come alive with the wind. What am I?
     • Answer: An echo.
   • Question: You are in a room with 3 monkeys. One monkey has a banana, one has a stick, and one has nothing. Who is the smartest primate in the room?
     • Answer: You!
   • Question: I am four times as old as my daughter. In 20 years time I shall be twice as old as her. How old are we now?
     • Answer: You are 40 and your daughter is 10.
   • Question: The more you take, the more you leave behind. What are they?
     • Answer: Footsteps.
   • Question: A man says: "Brothers and sisters, have I none, but that man's father is my father's son." Who is he pointing at?
     • Answer: His son.
   • Question: If an electric train is traveling south, which way is the smoke going?
     • Answer: There is no smoke, it’s an electric train.
   • Question: The day before two days after the day before tomorrow is Saturday. What day is it today?
     • Answer: Friday.
   • Question: What has hands but can’t clap?
     • Answer: A clock.
   • Question: What do pandas have that no other animal has?
     • Answer: Baby pandas.
6. Wordplay Brain Teasers{endbold} A wordplay brain teaser assesses your linguistic knowledge and lateral thinking, often involving some clever play on words. These questions will most likely challenge you to creatively find a solution, but it’s crucial to thoroughly think through every letter, syllable, and word involved in the brain teaser you’ve been presented with. Here are some practice wordplay brain teasers:
   • Question: What five-letter word becomes shorter when you add two letters to it?
     • Answer: Short.
   • Question: What is unusual about the following words: revive, banana, grammar, voodoo, assess, potato, dresser, uneven?
     • Answer: Each word spells the same word backward once you move the first letter to the end.
   • Question: Transform the word "CAT" into the word "DOG" by changing one letter at a time, with each step resulting in a valid English word.
     • Answer: Cat → Cot → Dot → Dog.
   • Question: What letter comes next in the following sequence? D R M F S L T __
     • Answer: D. Each letter represents one note in the diatonic musical scale: Do, Re, Mi, Fa, Sol, La, Ti, Do.
   • Question: What word is spelled incorrectly in every dictionary?
     • Answer: Incorrectly.
7. Pattern Brain Teasers{endbold} As the name implies, a pattern brain teaser aims to assess whether you can easily recognize patterns and predict upcoming sequences or trends. These mind teasers typically involve numbers, shapes, or symbols that have been placed in some sort of logical pattern. Your job is to both uncover the pattern and predict the next sequence. Here are some practice pattern brain teasers:
   • Question: What comes next in the sequence: 2, 4, 8, 16, __
     • Answer: 32 (The pattern is doubling each number).
   • Question: Find the missing number: 3, 6, 9, 12, __ , 18
     • Answer: 15 (The pattern is adding 3 each time).
   • Question: What comes next in the sequence: 1, 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, __
     • Answer: 13 (This is the Fibonacci sequence where each number is the sum of the two preceding ones).
   • Question: Which shape comes next: circle, triangle, square, pentagon, __
     • Answer: Hexagon (The pattern is increasing the number of sides by one.)
   • Question: What number fits this pattern: 1, 4, 9, 16, __ , 36
     • Answer: 25 (The pattern is the sequence of squares: 1², 2², 3², etc.).

What’s the best way to approach a brain teaser question?

1. Think carefully through the question before answering a brain teaser. When you’re trying to solve a brain teaser, there is a method to the madness—you aren’t meant to just immediately know the answer, like you might with a fact-based question. Instead, follow these steps and tips to master any brain teaser you might encounter:^[10]
   
   • Understand the question: Make sure you’ve fully understood the question. Reread it or ask for it to be repeated as much as necessary. Identify exactly what the question is asking.
   • Ask for clarification: If you need to and it’s possible, feel free to ask any clarifying questions that you have.
   • Break it down: Divide the problem into smaller parts to make the teaser feel more manageable and easier to understand.
   • Think aloud: If you’re able, talk through your problem-solving out loud or use a piece of paper to work through the brain teaser.
   • State any assumptions: Some brain teasers require you to make educated assumptions or estimates—that’s fine, as long as you make sure to clearly state what assumptions you’re making.
   • Avoid rushing or panicking: The worst thing you can do when faced with a brain teaser is to blurt out the first thing you think of or working up a (metaphorical sweat). Take a deep breath, take your time, and slowly analyze the question and its potential answer.

Why do some interviewers ask brain teasers?

1. Interviewers ask brain teasers to assess problem-solving skills. For certain positions, job interviewers and potential employers want to dig a little deeper and truly put you to the test—as a result, they may be able to learn more about you than what a resume and cover letter can tell them. For instance, a brain teaser can help an interviewer understand how you’d solve problems under pressure, including whether or not you’d react emotionally or rashly.^[11]
   
   • Similarly, a brain teaser can give them a good idea of your critical thinking skills and creativity level—will you be able to think outside the box to come up with a good answer, even if it’s not a technically correct one?

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References

1. ↑ https://www.scarymommy.com/funny-brain-teasers
2. ↑ https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/a41779999/riddles-for-adults/
3. ↑ https://www.fatherly.com/entertainment/66-brain-teasers-for-adults-kids-and-everyone-in-between
4. ↑ https://www.weareteachers.com/math-brain-teasers-for-kids/
5. ↑ https://www.today.com/parents/family/brainteasers-for-kids-rcna48086
6. ↑ https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/a41779999/riddles-for-adults/
7. ↑ https://money.cnn.com/2007/08/29/technology/brain_teasers.biz2/index.htm
8. ↑ https://questromworld.bu.edu/udc/wp-content/uploads/sites/13/2018/08/19003-UDCGrad-Center-Case-Interview-Guide-final-v2.pdf
9. ↑ https://insights.som.yale.edu/insights/what-riddles-teach-us-about-the-human-mind
10. ↑ https://edu.gcfglobal.org/en/problem-solving-and-decision-making/using-brain-teasers-to-build-critical-thinking-skills/1/
11. ↑ https://hbr.org/2003/05/beware-the-interview-inquisition

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