How to Body Language Signs a Guy Wants to Kiss You

Decipher exactly how a guy looks and acts before he kisses you

There’s nothing like the anticipation before a first kiss with someone new—the butterflies in your stomach, the sweaty palms, and growing tension between you as you slowly inch closer to that smooch! If you’re interested in a guy but looking for signs that he wants to kiss you, you’ve come to the right place. We’ll list all the signs that a man is interested in kissing you, along with how you can respond to advances (or speed things along if there aren’t any!).

How to Tell If a Man Wants to Kiss You

1. He smiles and makes eye contact.
2. He looks at your lips or licks his own.
3. He briefly touches you or brushes against you.
4. He speaks in a softer and lower tone.
5. He tells you that he wants to kiss you.

Steps

15 Physical Signs a Guy Wants to Kiss You

1. He has an open stance with a friendly smile. If a guy is interested in and happy to be around you, then he’ll probably stand with a friendly and inviting posture. He’ll uncross his arms, stand with his feet apart, and turn his entire body toward you. He’ll probably put a wide smile on his face—after all, he’s happy to see you!^[1]
   
2. He slowly gets closer and closer to you. Did your date suddenly lean forward to bring your faces closer together, or is he slowly scooting nearer to you in your shared restaurant booth? If your man is inching closer and closer to you throughout the night, then he may be testing the waters.^[2]
   
   • If you move away, for instance, then that gives him a clear sign that you’re not interested. If you match his closeness, however, you’re showing him that you want to kiss him as well.
3. He seems nervous and fidgety. If a guy wants to kiss you but is too scared or nervous, he may start stumbling over his words (or his feet!). Watch for fidgeting with his hands, pockets, or whatever he’s holding. Licensed psychologist Sarah Schewitz, PsyD, adds that a guy who’s interested in you “might get red or flushed or start moving a part of his body or touching or scratching a part of his body. [He might also] clench his jaw, and you'll see his jaw muscle moving.” ^[3]
   
   • Not only do these physical signs show that your man likes you enough to be nervous, but they also show that he’s on the edge of his seat with excitement to kiss you!
4. He initiates physical contact through “accidental” and non-accidental touches. When a man is attracted to you, he’ll start to build up sexual tension through little touches, brushes, and feels. For example, a guy who wants to kiss you might pick something up at the same time as you, brush his leg against yours, or wipe some food off the corner of your lip.^[4]
   
   • If he’s being a bit more forward, he might brush the hair out of your eyes or kiss you in less-intimate places like your hand, cheek, or forehead.
5. He makes consistent eye contact with you. If your man can’t stop gazing into your eyes, then that’s a pretty good sign that he wants to kiss you. Not only is he probably mesmerized by your beauty, but he may be trying to seem more confident by asserting flirtatious eye contact. All signs point to a smooch in your future!^[5]
   
6. He keeps glancing down at your lips. When he’s not staring into your eyes, this guy might constantly be shifting his gaze to your lips. He may be doing this subconsciously, or he may be pairing his downward glances with a mischievous look to let you know that his mind is on your lips.^[6]
   
   • If you’re looking for signs that a guy wants a kiss over text, he might send kissy-face or lip-related emojis over text. Since he can’t glance at your lips in person, these flirty emojis are his way of saying that he’s thinking about kissing you. 😘🫦💋^[7]
7. He licks his lips while making eye contact with you. One of the most convincing signs that a man wants to kiss you is him repeatedly licking his lips while looking at you. He may be doing this subconsciously to add moisture to his lips—as he’s already visualizing kissing you in his mind. Or, he may be licking his lips to send you a signal that he wants a kiss. Either way, you can be fairly certain that there’s a smooch in your future.^[8]
   
   • You may also catch him applying Chapstick while making eye contact with you—applying moisturizer to his mouth may be his way of letting you know that his lips are prepped and ready to go!
8. He softens and lowers his voice. Because bass-like voices are typically associated with masculinity, some men may subconsciously deepen their voices when they’re trying to be more seductive and sensual.^[9] A soft voice is also connected to intimacy and proximity. So if your man’s voice takes on a soft, deep, and husky overtone while you’re talking, then he may be trying to put the moves on you.^[10]
   
9. He checks his breath or pops a mint. This sign may be hard to spot since most guys will check their breath once you’re turned away or occupied with someone else. However, if you do notice him raising a hand to check his breath or randomly chomping on a piece of gum, then he may be preparing himself to kiss you. Green flag that he doesn’t want you to experience any stinky garlic breath!
   
10. He turns on the charm and dials up the flirtiness. Guys may always throw out sweet compliments and cheesy pickup lines, but they’ll lay the flirtation on thick in the moments leading up to a (hopeful kiss). Your guy will probably start complimenting your physical attributes in a forward and genuine way. For example, he may say flirty lines like:
    
    • “Every time I see you, your smile brightens my day.”^[11]
    • “I love that lip gloss on you.”
    • “Your skin looks so soft and smooth.”
    • “Sorry if I seem distracted, I really can’t stop looking at your eyes.”
    • “You look so stunning that it’s making me nervous.”
    • If you’re looking for signs that a guy wants a kiss over text, he may send similar compliments over instant messaging to hint that he wants to kiss you the next time he sees you.
11. He notices little things about you, like your perfume or nail color. Stereotypically, men aren’t particularly known for their high attention to detail. However, if your potential peck partner is commenting on little things about you (like your fragrance, nail color, shoes, or hairstyle), then his focus is definitely all on you.^[12] And if you’re all he’s thinking about, then at least some of those thoughts likely involve a kiss!
    
    • If you’re looking for signs that a guy wants a kiss over text, this same meaning might come through in behaviors like sending you long texts or responding really quickly to your messages. Basically, you’re his top priority, and he’s only focused on you.
12. He starts to get quiet. If you’ve been having a lively and flirtatious conversation when your guy suddenly goes quiet, then this may be a sign that he wants to kiss you. After all, you can’t lock your lips while those very same lips are busy yapping away! He may be working up the nerve to kiss you, or he’s attempting to create a lull in conversation that’ll give him the opportunity to lean in and go for it.
    
13. He lingers or delays his departure. If you’re on a date with a guy and the night is wrapping up, he might awkwardly linger after saying his goodbyes. This awkward pause is likely caused by him trying to decide whether you’re open to a kiss—but he definitely wants one. You can make your position clear by giving him a light touch and telling him you want to kiss him or saying goodnight and walking away.^[13]
    
14. He sets the mood with sexy music or lighting. If a guy is really wanting to kiss you, he may go the extra mile to romance you first. For example, he might invite you on a date and bring you to a romantic or sentimental setting. He may further set the mood by bringing you flowers, lighting candles, or putting on mood music.^[14]
    
15. He tells you that he wants to kiss you. And finally, the clearest sign that a man wants to kiss you is that he tells you directly. He may come right out and say, “I really want to kiss you,” or “Can I kiss you?” He might also say something more indirect like, “I’ve been thinking about kissing you all night.”^[15] If he makes one of these statements, there should be no doubt left in your mind that he wants to kiss you!
    
    • If you’re looking for signs that a guy wants a kiss over text, then this same rule applies! If a guy texts you something like “I really want to kiss you” or “I can’t stop thinking about our next kiss,” then he definitely wants to give you a smooch.

How to Respond When a Guy Wants to Kiss You

1. Decide if you want this guy to kiss you, then act accordingly. Even if a man is showing all the signs that he’s dying to kiss you, you still get to decide whether or not you want to kiss him. If you do want to kiss him, go for it! Initiate the kiss yourself or invite him to with a teasing “Are you ever gonna kiss me?” or a more direct “Do you want to kiss me?”
   
   • If you don’t want to kiss him, simply say “no.” You don’t need to give him a reason. If he tries to pressure or persuade you into a kiss, continue to say “no” and remove yourself from the situation as soon as possible.^[16]
   • If you’re not sure about the kiss, you could ask him more questions about his intentions before making your decision. For example, you could ask him why he wants to kiss you or what kind of kiss he’s thinking of (e.g., a French kiss or a chaste peck).

How to Signal That You Want a Guy to Kiss You

1. Give him flirty signs like touching his hands or talking about kissing. You can always just tell a guy directly that you want him to kiss you, but some subtler options may be more your speed! If you want to give a guy the cue to kiss you, touch him gently by stroking the back of his hand, playing with his watch, or moving close enough for your hands to “accidentally” brush against one another.^[17]
   
   • While you’re touching (or almost touching), make eye contact and soften your gaze. Then, move your gaze down to his lips and back up to his eyes to clearly express your desires (this is called the Triangle Method!).
   • If these tactics don’t work, be a little bit more forward by purposefully reapplying your lipstick or lip gloss in front of him. Or, work the word “kiss” into your conversation by asking him about his first kiss or telling him that he has great lips (so he’s probably a great kisser).
   • If the date night is ending and your man still hasn’t made a move, linger for a moment as you say your goodbyes, look up at him, and lean in slightly. If he still doesn’t kiss you, you can ask him directly if he wants to or just let it go for now.

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References

1. ↑ https://oercommons.org/courseware/lesson/108306/overview
2. ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/body-language/22-examples-of-body-language-attraction/
3. ↑ [v160997_b01]. 15 April 2019.
4. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/201910/8-key-nonverbal-signals-of-sexual-interest
5. ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/body-language/22-examples-of-body-language-attraction/
6. ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/male-body-language/
7. ↑ https://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/attraction/does-he-like-me/
8. ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/body-language/22-examples-of-body-language-attraction/
9. ↑ https://www.fuqua.duke.edu/duke-fuqua-insights/ceo-million-dollar-voice
10. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/202204/how-men-and-women-flirt-body-language
11. ↑ https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-advice/flirty-quotes-for-her/
12. ↑ https://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/attraction/does-he-like-me/
13. ↑ https://nycwingwoman.com/closing-deal-date-get-kiss/
14. ↑ https://www.glamour.com/story/dos-and-donts-of-setting-the-m
15. ↑ https://www.antiviolenceproject.org/2015/01/creative-ways-to-ask-to-kiss-or-be-kissed-by-someone/
16. ↑ https://www.antiviolenceproject.org/2015/01/creative-ways-to-ask-to-kiss-or-be-kissed-by-someone/
17. ↑ https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-a-guy-to-kiss-you/

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How to Have a Great Day

Plus, quick & easy replies for a “have a great day” message

Looking to brighten someone’s day as soon as they wake up? Sending a “good day” message is one of the best ways to make someone feel cared for and strengthen your relationship with them. In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of messages to wish someone a great day, whether you’re looking for something sweet, silly, or cheerful. We've also included kind responses to “have a great day” so you can spread even more joy and positivity.

Steps

Best “Have a Great Day” Messages

1. Wish someone a great day to make them feel cared for. It’s a simple gesture that goes a long way and boosts the well-being of those around you. Send your loved one a supportive message every morning, or if you think they’re going through a tough time. When wishing someone a good day in person, you should “give a head nod” or “smile and wave,” according to certified life coach Jessica George, MA, CHt.^[1]
   
   • Take it easy!
   • Enjoy your day.
   • Have a good one!
   • Enjoy every moment.
   • Make today a great one!
   • Keep smiling and shining 😄
   • Cheers to a fantastic day ahead!
   • I hope you have a wonderful day.
   • Time to wake up and rock this day!
   • Go out there and make it a great one!
   • May today be as incredible as you are.
   • Believe in yourself and make it happen.
   • Hope your day is as radiant as you are!
   • Cheers to a wonderful day. You deserve it!
   • Hoping you find joy in every little thing today.
   • Sending you lots of positive energy today 🫶
   • Here’s to a day full of happiness and success!
   • Here’s a little sunshine to brighten your day ☀️
   • Sending you warm hugs to kick off your morning!
   • Wishing you a day so bright, it outshines the sun!
   • Wishing you a day as bright and beautiful as you are ✨
   • Sending you a big smile and lots of love to brighten your day.
   • Thinking of you today (and every day). Have a happy day ahead.
   • I hope your day is filled with all the things that make your heart sing.
   • I have a feeling that you’re going to have a magical day 🪄 Just be yourself!

“Have a Great Day” Messages for Her

1. Start her day on a high note with a sweet “good morning” message. If you want to make your partner feel desired, let her know she’s the first person you think about when you wake up. Bring up her best qualities, send a flirty message, or stress how lucky you are to know her. Complimenting your partner can make her day and strengthen your relationship in the long run.^[2]
   
   • Let’s crush today as a team 🫂 I believe in us!
   • Good morning, baby. I hope today is better than yesterday ❤️
   • The greatest joy in life is getting to be with you. Enjoy your day!
   • I promise I will never stop loving you. Have a beautiful day, honey.
   • Hope your day is as dazzling as you! Keep shining, sweetheart 💫
   • I hope today is as golden as your heart. I can’t wait to see you later!
   • Life is extra beautiful with you by my side. Have a good day, darling!
   • I can’t imagine my world without you. Have a nice day at work, baby.
   • The best part of my morning is always you. Here’s to a beautiful day!
   • I can’t wait to get my hands on you later…but until then, have a good day!
   • Sending warm hugs and love your way. Hope your day is as incredible as you are!
   • Here’s to a day full of wonderful surprises and moments that make you feel special!
   • Think of me all day, okay? ‘Cause I’ll be thinking of you! Have a great day, beautiful 🌸
   • Wishing you a fantastic day ahead. Remember, I love you more than words can describe.
   • You inspire me every day. I hope today is full of joy, success, and every ounce of happiness!
   • Rise and shine, gorgeous. I hope that you enjoy your day, and I’m looking forward to our date this evening!
   • I hope today brings you all the success and happiness in the world. No one deserves it more than you, princess!
   • Morning, cutie. How are you feeling after last night? I woke up thinking about you and wanted to wish you a great day!
   • Have a good day, baby…and don’t fall asleep after reading this text! Only 15 more hours until we can go back to bed 💀
   • My alarm can go off multiple times, but my day doesn’t start until I hear your voice. You make everything better, and I hope you have the best day!
   • I hope you have a good day at work, baby girl. I’m definitely going to be distracted by you all day, but I know you have better concentration than me 😉
   • Morning, gorgeous. How did you sleep last night? I woke up with a smile on my face because just the thought of you brightens my day. Wishing you a wonderful week!
   • I wake up feeling like I won the lottery because of you. Seriously, how did I get so lucky?! I can’t wait until you come home, and I hope you have the most perfect day.
   • Good morning to the most beautiful girl in the world. I love you dearly and want you to know that I’ll be cheering you on today, no matter what happens. Have an amazing day at work!
   • The sun rose just so it could wish you a good morning. In fact, the sun should consider itself lucky to see your beautiful face every day! I hope you have a wonderful day, babe. Love you forever.

“Have a Great Day” Messages for Him

1. Make him feel appreciated with a meaningful “good morning” message. Sending a morning text is a sweet and simple way to make your partner feel valued. Think about his personality or schedule to craft a personalized message. If he’s super flirty, for example, you could crack a joke and call him a cute nickname. If he’s stressed about work, you could send a supportive text to give him a boost of confidence. Whatever you decide, be sure to express appreciation and tailor your message.
   
   • I wanted to be the first to wish you a good day!
   • You’re sexy, fine, and all mine. Have a good day, babe.
   • You are my motivation for every day. Enjoy today, handsome!
   • Let’s make it through this Monday together! I know we can do it 💪
   • Life is a lot sweeter by your side. I hope you have a good day, stud.
   • I hope you have a successful day ahead. Be bold and go for it, baby!
   • I woke up thinking about you and wanted to wish you a wonderful day!
   • You’re always the first person I want to talk to in the morning. Love you!
   • Wishing the most amazing day to my sweet, sexy, and supportive partner.
   • My love for you grows every single day. Here’s to a new day as a team 🫂
   • It’s a good day to win everything you want in life. Go out and get ‘em, bubs.
   • Good morning to the man of my dreams. Hope today is as magical as you are 🔮
   • I hope you have a productive day, babe! Thanks for working so hard for our family ❤️
   • Every single day feels like a blessing since you entered my life. Have the best day, babe!
   • Here’s to a beautiful day, my love. The sun is shining and my heart is beating for you ☀️💓
   • I can’t wait to see you later, and I hope you have an amazing day at work. Knock it out of the park!
   • You get me like no other. I hope you have a great day and remember how truly amazing you are.
   • Just wanted to remind you how much I appreciate you. I hope today brings you closer to your dreams ✨
   • Counting down the days until I get to see you again! I miss you so much, but I hope you have an amazing week!
   • Your love inspires me to chase my dreams, and I hope mine does the same for you. Have an amazing day, babe.
   • You make every day feel like Sunday…even when it’s a dreadful Monday. I hope today doesn’t suck and you enjoy it 😂
   • Whenever I think of my life, I know you’ll always be there for me. Thanks for everything, my love. I hope your day is amazing.
   • Morning, smarty pants. You’re going to crush your meeting today, and I can’t wait to hear all about it. Have a great day and good luck (even though you don’t need it) 🍀😉
   • I had the most amazing dream last night. You were there and things got pretty spicy. Anyway, I hope you spend the day thinking about me…because I’ll definitely be thinking about you.
   • I think you should just move in at this point because texting you 24/7 isn’t cutting it for me. I need to see your handsome face in the morning! Good luck on your presentation and have the best day 💞

“Have a Great Day” Messages for Friends

1. Include an inside joke or inspiring quote to show love to your friends. Remind your bestie that the day is full of opportunities, and they can tackle any challenge that heads their way. If they’re worried about something, ease their anxieties by letting them know you’ll support them no matter what. It might help to throw in an inside joke or playful one-liner to lighten the mood!
   
   • Make today legen-wait-for-it-dary!
   • Keep pushing forward! You got it, bro 💪
   • Cheers to a positive and successful day 🥂
   • Happy Monday! Let’s make some money moves 💸
   • Trust in the process 🤞 and take it one day at a time ☝️
   • I can just tell that today’s gonna be a good day. Let’s get it!
   • I hope your day is as beautiful and inspiring as your soul 🌈
   • You’re going to KILL your presentation today. Knock ‘em dead!
   • Sending good vibes to the coolest cat in town. Have a good one!
   • I’m so grateful to call you my friend. Have an incredible day, bestie!
   • I hope today is amazing and you find a thousand reasons to smile 😄
   • Here’s to being pretty and productive this week 💁‍♀️💅👑 We got it, girl!
   • Manifesting an amazing day for the most amazing friend in the world 🔮
   • Today is full of endless opportunities for happiness. Make the most of it!
   • Remember, I’ll always be your biggest supporter. Have the best day ever!
   • Never hold back and always shoot for the stars. Here’s to a fantastic week!
   • If not now, then when? Let’s take the steps to get even closer to our dreams today.
   • Don’t let anyone dull your sparkle today, babe. Keep on shining and enjoy every moment 🌟
   • You’re capable of amazing things and today’s another chance to prove it. Have an awesome day!
   • Nothing can hold you back, and I’ll cosign on that ✍️ View today as an opportunity to go after what you want, bud!
   • May your day be full of good moments, happy surprises, and endless opportunities. Have a wonderful day, my friend.
   • I know you don’t want to go to work, but remember that we're going to watch Love Island and eat ice cream later 🤭
   • Today is the perfect day to chase your dreams and make them a reality. Stay focused, and have a fantastic day, my friend!
   • Morning, bestie. This lifestyle doesn’t come cheap, so get out of bed and go get that bread 🤑 Hope today isn’t too rough for you 🤞
   • Mantras for the week: Let’s get this bread 💸 Let’s gain this grain 🤑 Let’s land this loaf 💰 Let’s take this toast 💳 Let’s yeet this wheat 💵

“Have a Great Day” Messages to Cheer Someone Up

1. Send a motivational message to brighten someone’s day. If you suspect your friend or family member is feeling down, take the opportunity to shower them with love and support. Highlight the qualities you admire most about them, and reassure them that you’ll always be by their side. If you like, throw in some emojis to add extra color to your conversation and make them smile!
   
   • You’re going to do incredible things today. I believe in you!
   • Sending you good vibes 💫🪐🧘🌈☀️🦋🔮🧿✨🕯🍄🍀🤗
   • Today is a gift, and you have the power to make it extraordinary.
   • You’re going to accomplish amazing things today! I can feel it 🔮
   • Wishing you a day filled with peace, love, and prosperity 💞🍀🤞
   • Sending you a virtual hug and a shower of love to start your day 💌
   • I hope you have a fantastic day, and may all your worries melt away!
   • Just know that I’m thinking of you today. Here’s to better days ahead 💫
   • I made you a playlist to kick start your morning: (link). Have a good day!
   • Today is a new chapter in the story of your life. Make it a memorable one!
   • Trust that you’re on the right path and seize today! I’ll be right beside you 🤝
   • I hope today brings you as much happiness as you bring to those around you.
   • Here’s to a day filled with joy, love, and all the things that make life beautiful 🌎
   • I hope your day is as incredible as you are! Keep on rockin’ it in the free world 🎶
   • Remember, today is a new day! You can achieve anything you set your mind to ✨
   • Wishing you a beautiful day filled with moments that make you laugh, smile, and feel alive 🌱
   • Even on the darkest days, there’s a glimmer of hope. Hold onto that hope tightly and have a good day.
   • Just wanted to remind you how special you are to me. Sending you all the energy to conquer the day!
   • Remember, you’re so much stronger than you give yourself credit for. Wishing you an amazing day ❤️
   • Let go of any worries and embrace the endless possibilities of today. You have the power to make it amazing!
   • Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Take the moment, and make it perfect! Here’s to a motivating and productive week 🍻
   • You’re the strongest person I know, so dust off your feet and stand up taller than before. Let’s kick some butt today!
   • We may not know where life goes, but at least we can enjoy the ride 🤟 Hope today is everything you wish for and more 🫶
   • Believe in yourself and all that you are, superstar. I hope your day is full of the confidence you need to reach your goals ⭐
   • Remember, you can’t have a rainbow without a little rain 🌈 I promise that things will get better, and I hope you have a better day than yesterday 🤞

Religious “Have a Great Day” Messages

1. Highlight God’s gift of another day with a religious message. If you think the other person is feeling lost lately, remind them of God’s grace, love, and guidance. Sending a prayer or religious message in the morning can give them a boost of reassurance for the day, plus highlight the importance of living a good Christian life.
   
   • Here’s to a day as beautiful as your faith.
   • I pray you bask in the love and light of Christ today.
   • May the grace of God be with you today and forever!
   • Start your day with prayers and let his love light the way!
   • Today is a good day to have a good day. God is with you!
   • May God bless today with more love than your heart can hold.
   • May his light shine upon you and guide you every step of the way.
   • May your day be filled with love, joy, and peace. He is with you always!
   • Your faith inspires me. May God’s love be with you each and every day.
   • May your day be filled with God’s infinite love. Have a blessed day ahead 🙏
   • Rejoice in the day that the Lord has made. Being alive is an absolute blessing.
   • Today is in God’s hands, so have faith that he will watch over you. Don’t worry!
   • I thank Jesus for bringing you into this beautiful world. Make today a great one!
   • You are truly a gift from God. May you enjoy every moment of this beautiful day!
   • When I look at you, I see a person created in God’s image. Have a blessed day!
   • God is good! He has given you another day to praise him and rejoice in his love.
   • Never forget: His love and protection will always surround you. Have a good day.
   • I pray that you feel God’s love and protection today, giving you strength in all you do.
   • Sending you prayers for an amazing day, trusting that God’s light will guide your way 🕯️
   • I pray God’s love is your anchor today, giving you peace and strength when you need it.
   • I hope today is filled with divine blessings and the comfort of knowing that the Lord is with you.
   • May God’s love and mercy be with you as you begin this new day. Have a blessed morning!
   • Each day, I thank the Lord for letting you be a part of my life. May you feel his love in all you do.
   • Embrace the beauty of each moment and trust the process. You’ll never fail with God on your side!
   • If you’re feeling lost, remember that the Lord is with you! I pray that today is much better than yesterday.

“Have a Great Day” Quotes

1. Share an inspirational quote if you’re at a loss for words. If you’re struggling to find the right sentiments, get help from someone else! Choose an author, artist, or public figure that the other person admires, then share their words of wisdom. Here are some great options if you want to motivate others:
   
   • “Make each day your masterpiece.” —John Wooden
   • “Don’t expect a great day; create one.” —Bob Proctor
   • “Every morning is a beautiful morning.” —Terri Guillemets
   • “Don’t count the days, make the days count.” —Muhammed Ali
   • “It’s time to start living the life you’ve imagined.” —Henry James
   • “Lovely days don’t come to you, you should walk to them.” —Rumi
   • “When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.” —Steve Maraboli
   • “It is never too late to be what you might have been.” —George Eliot
   • “A good day is a good day. A bad day is a good story.” —Glennon Melton
   • “With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts.” —Eleanor Roosevelt
   • “Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most.” —Buddha
   • “Every day is a good day. There is something to learn, care and celebrate.” —Amit Ray
   • “Every day is a good day to be alive, whether the sun’s shining or not.” —Marty Robbins
   • “Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy.” —Leo Buscaglia
   • “If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up.” —J.M. Power
   • “In the morning, instead of saying to yourself, ‘I got to wake up’ say ‘I get to wake up!’” —Erykah Badu
   • “I am grateful for being alive today. It is my joy and pleasure to live another wonderful day.” —Louise Hay
   • “Smile in the mirror. Do that every morning and you’ll start to see a big difference in your life.” —Yoko Ono
   • “Some people dream of success, while other people get up every morning and make it happen.” —Wayne Huizenga
   • “The silence in the morning holds lots of expectations and is more hopeful than the silence at night.” —Victoria Durnak
   • “Mornings are like nature in spring…humming with the sounds of life and the promise of a fresh new day.” —LeAura Alderson
   • “One day you will wake up and there won’t be any more time to do the things you’ve always wanted. Do it now.” —Paulo Coelho
   • “Every morning, you have two choices: continue to sleep with your dreams or wake up and chase them.” —Arnold Schwarzenegger
   • “Each morning when I open my eyes, I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today.” —Groucho Marx
   • “When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive, to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.” —Marcus Aurelius
   • “I remind myself every morning: Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So, if I’m going to learn, I must do it by listening.” —Larry King

How to Respond to “Have a Great Day”

1. Express gratitude and return the favor with a kind message. Even if you’re not particularly close to the other person, it’s common courtesy to say “thank you” and wish them well. Here are some simple replies to acknowledge their message and share your gratitude:
   
   • You too!
   • Back at you ❤️
   • Right back at ya!
   • The feeling is mutual.
   • Thanks, same to you.
   • Wishing you the same.
   • Thank you so much. Likewise!
   • Aw, thank you. That means the world.
   • That means a lot coming from you. I appreciate it!

Tips

• While you can send a “good day” message whenever you want, the best time is in the morning (or when the other person wakes up).
• You can tell that the other person appreciates your “good day” messages if they say “thank you” or reply back.
• Reflect on your relationship to see how often you should send a "good day" message. If you're talking to a close friend or family member, you could send one every day or once a week, like on a Monday. If you don’t text them often, you could send one when they’re going through a tough time.

References

1. ↑ [v162075_b01]. 11 February, 2022.
2. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202301/how-expressing-authentic-admiration-changes-relationships

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How to Types of Kisses

Learn the benefits of kissing and different kisses you can try

Kissing is a nearly unavoidable way to show affection and intimacy—it's no wonder there are so many different ways to kiss someone! Read on to learn more about all the different types of kisses, what they mean, and when they're appropriate. Plus, we talked to dating coach Eddy Baller for expert tips on how to be a great kisser.

Different Types of Kisses

• Social kisses demonstrate affection for acquaintances in social settings.
• Friendly kisses are light, close-lipped kisses between friends and family.
• Romantic kisses are often open-mouthed and last longer than friendly kisses.
• Sexual kisses make use of the tongue and even teeth along with the lips.

Steps

Social Kisses

1. Air kiss{endbold} Upon greeting, people lean their heads toward each other and purse their lips, but they don't actually touch each other. For many people all over the world, this is a sort of standard greeting for anyone they consider part of their social circle.^[1]
   
   • What it means: Custom dictates that the person air kissing you should treat you warmly, as though you are at least a close acquaintance.
2. Hand kiss{endbold} At an extremely formal occasion, a lady extends her right hand (always her right hand) to a gentleman, who takes it and lightly kisses the top of it. Typically, the woman is older or very important, such as a high-ranking government official.^[2]
   
   • What it means: Courtesy, politeness, and respect in a highly formal way. Most people are more likely to encounter this done in a campy way for humor.
   • In formal situations, it's often best if the woman takes the lead here. If you raise your right hand with your palm facing down, the man will usually understand the greeting you expect.
   • Often, a hand kiss isn't even really a kiss at all, in the sense that the gentleman's lips never actually touch the lady's hand.
3. Peck{endbold} In terms of social kisses, you're usually talking about a peck on the cheek here. Sometimes it's just one, but in other places it's one kiss on each cheek, or even the right cheek, the left cheek, then back to the right. And for some people, the number of kisses might indicate how close they feel they are to you—you might even call it a "pecking order."^[3]
   
   • What it means: Depending on the culture, it could mean that you're considered to be a very close friend, or it could just be a polite greeting.
   • When in doubt about social customs, try to hang back in a group and observe others so you know what to expect. If that's not possible, just follow the other person's lead. If you feel awkward, you can just say, "I'm sorry, I don't know the custom here," and let them teach you.

Friendly Kisses

1. Top-of-the-head kiss{endbold} A top-of-the-head kiss is likely to happen if the person kissing you is quite a bit taller than you are, although it can also happen if you're sitting and they're standing. It's normally just a brief peck, although it might be accompanied by some other affectionate gesture, such as squeezing your shoulder or ruffling your hair.
   
   • What it means: Affection, typically from parent to child or between adults if one is significantly taller (often in jest).
2. Forehead kiss{endbold} This is generally just a peck on the forehead in passing, although they might hold the back of your head and press their lips against your forehead for slightly longer depending on the emotional context. This can often be a doting sort of kiss, such as with a parent and their children.
   
   • What it means: Familial love and affection. Romantic partners also sometimes kiss each other on the forehead as a show of general love and affection.
3. Cheek kiss{endbold} A peck on the cheek is perhaps the quintessential friend kiss—the one you might've heard someone complain about after a date when they were going in for some lip-lock. Just a light brush of the lips on your cheek, maybe enough to leave a print if the kisser is wearing lipstick.
   
   • What it means: Affection, but perhaps not romantic interest. If you've only recently met, it could also mean that the person would just like to take things more slowly.
   • If you got a cheek kiss and you feel like you're getting mixed signals about the person's interest, speak up! Say something like, "I was really hoping I could kiss you on the lips. Why did you turn away?"
4. Nose kiss{endbold} If someone kisses you on the nose, they definitely think you're as cute as a button! This adorable little friendly kiss is typically reserved for little kids, although sometimes friends might kiss each other on the nose just to be silly.
   
   • What it means: Love and affection from a protective point of view
5. Eskimo kiss{endbold} An Eskimo kiss isn't really even a kiss, if a kiss requires you to use your lips. To give someone an Eskimo kiss, you simply rub the tip of your nose against the tip of their nose. It's a great way to show affection when it's really cold outside and you don't want to open your mouth!
   
   • What it means: Playful adoration for someone you care about a lot, whether they're a friend or a member of your family
6. Butterfly kiss{endbold} Like an Eskimo kiss, a butterfly kiss is a kiss that doesn't involve the lips—this time, you flutter your eyelashes against someone's skin. This is a very adorable, very sweet sort of kiss that often accompanies cuddling and nuzzling with someone who helps keep you safe.
   
   • What it means: Love and affection from the point of view of someone who feels safe and protected
   • Butterfly kisses are most common between daughters and their fathers—musician Bob Carlisle even wrote a song about them.^[4]

Romantic Kisses

1. Single lip kiss{endbold} For this kiss, lean forward as though you're about to give someone a regular kiss on the lips, but instead, wrap your lips around only one of the other person's lips. Sucking on the person's lip briefly can also be very sensual.
   
   • What it means: This kiss shows that you're romantically attracted to someone and potentially interested in being more physically intimate with them.
   • If you're doing a single lip kiss, you might also playfully nibble that lip if you want to transition into more sexual kissing.
2. French kiss{endbold} You and your kissing partner lock lips, your tongues entering each other's mouth, darting in and out, occasionally twisting and tangling together. It's said that French is the language of romance, and the French kiss just might be the most romantic kiss there is.
   
   • What it means: Someone who French kisses you feels very romantically (and maybe even sexually) attracted to you and wants to be physically close to you.
3. Angel kiss{endbold} A normal sort of peck, only this time on your eyelid. Because it's so uncommon, you usually don't see this type of kiss except between romantic partners. Often, someone will angel kiss their partner after they've been crying.
   
   • What it means: It's a sign of an intense emotional bond and a strong emotional and romantic connection. The person is showing how much they care.
4. American kiss{endbold} If you've ever seen the photo of the American soldier kissing a woman in the middle of the street after he made it home from World War II, you have the blueprint for the American kiss. It's essentially the same as the French kiss, except you and your kissing partner don't get your tongues involved.
   
   • What it means: If someone kisses you like this, they're definitely very romantically attracted to you, and likely also have a flare for the dramatic.
   • American kisses are typically done in public, often when you haven't seen the person in a while.

Sexual Kisses

1. Earlobe kiss{endbold} Earlobes are an erogenous zone for a lot of people.^[5] If someone starts kissing (or nibbling) on your earlobe, it likely means theirs are sensitive and they're curious if yours are as well.
   
   • What it means: If someone is kissing your earlobe, they're most likely trying to turn you on or get you worked up.
   • You can stimulate earlobes with your mouth in all kinds of different ways, including nibbling, kissing, sucking, and licking.
2. Neck kiss{endbold} Some people associate neck kisses with vampires. But in the real world, if someone is kissing on your neck, it typically doesn't mean that they want to drink your blood—although they're probably interested in exchanging other bodily fluids.
   
   • What it means: Anyone kissing your neck feels extremely passionate about you and wants further physical intimacy.
   • If your kissing partner started at your lips and worked down to your neck, they're likely working their way down to exploring other parts of your body with their lips and tongue.
3. Spider-Man kiss{endbold} This one gets its name from the iconic upside-down kiss between Peter Parker (Tobey Maguire) and Mary-Jane Watson (Kirsten Dunst) in the 2002 Spider-Man movie. It might take a little planning to get it down right, but this will definitely be one you'll remember for years to come.^[6]
   
   • What it means: You and your kissing partner are either extremely creative, huge Spider-Man fans, or both.
4. Bite kiss or hickey{endbold} This is the kind of kiss that lands you with a nice bruise marking the spot where you were kissed. And, depending on what you have to do the next day, that can be more than a little embarrassing. But you're usually not thinking about that at the time because you're too caught up in the moment.
   
   • What it means: This is usually a sign of great passion—you might even consider the hickey itself a souvenir of a passionate night to remember.
5. Lizard kiss{endbold} With this kiss, you and your partner lean your faces toward each other as though you're about to French kiss. But instead of locking your lips together, you just stick your tongues out and wiggle them together. It might seem a little silly at first, but if you get into it you might find that it's actually really erotic.
   
   • What it means: You and your kissing partner are really comfortable with each other and not afraid to look a little silly.
6. Ice kiss{endbold} Put an ice cube in your mouth, and then lean over and French kiss your partner. As you're kissing, swap the ice cube back and forth between each other's mouths until it melts. This is a great way to make out on a hot day!
   
   • What it means: Anyone who offers this kind of kiss is likely to be really open-minded and interested in experimenting a little. Have fun!

Benefits of Kissing

1. Emotional connection{endbold} When you kiss someone, you experience a sort of shared vulnerability that brings you closer together emotionally. Your bond strengthens the more time you spend being physically intimate with one another, including when you kiss.^[7]
   
   • Kissing also gives you and your partner a sense of togetherness. After all, you're sharing saliva and mouth germs—you're definitely bonded in that sense!
2. Stimulation of feel-good hormones{endbold} When you kiss somebody you like, your body floods your nervous system with these feel-good hormones such as oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine, that make you feel like you're on top of the world. All of these hormones can also give you a bit of an energy boost to get things done.^[8]
   
   • While the effects of these hormones do wear off after a while, kissing your partner on a regular basis can definitely help boost your mood and keep you thinking more positively.
   • The energy you feel also comes with a bit of a boost in metabolism, which means kissing might even help you lose a little weight (although probably not anything noticeable).
3. Immunity boost{endbold} It might sound a bit gross, but when you kiss someone on the mouth, you're exposing yourself to the germs in their mouth (and they're being exposed to yours). Exposure to bacteria teaches your immune system how to fight it off, which strengthens your whole immune system.^[9]
   
   • All those feel-good hormones that kissing triggers have some immune-boosting effects as well.
4. Stress reduction{endbold} Research shows all forms of physical affection help reduce acute signs of distress and generally calm people down. This effect can be seen with all types of physical affection, not just romantic affection.^[10]
   
   • For example, infants who were kissed a lot by their mothers smiled more and cried less often.
   • Generally speaking, showing physical affection to people and having people who show physical affection to you will help you better handle stressful situations.
5. Lower blood pressure{endbold} It could be because of all those feel-good hormones your body produces when you kiss. It might also be the result of the comfort and warmth you feel when someone is being physically affectionate to you. But whatever the cause, if you kiss and are kissed frequently, you'll likely have a lower resting blood pressure.^[11]
   
   • Since maintaining low blood pressure is a really important part of heart health, you might even say that you can literally hug and kiss your way to a stronger and healthier heart.
6. Improved overall health{endbold} The main "love hormone" your body produces when you kiss, oxytocin, does a lot to really boost your body's overall health. While the differences aren't drastic, they do add up over time. And the feeling of connection that you have with the person you shared physical affection with endure over time.^[12]
   
   • Even better, because oxytocin feels so good, you naturally want to be physically affectionate again so you can get more of it. This is one cycle that's really a win-win for everybody concerned!
7. Relationship satisfaction{endbold} A couple who kisses together stays together—or so it often seems. Couples who kiss often tend to report being happier and more satisfied in their relationships, no matter how long they've been together.^[13]
   
   • Often couples who stop kissing each other on a regular basis find that their relationship starts to lose some of that spark it initially had. Kissing is a great way to bring it back!

Tips for Being a Great Kisser

1. Brush your teeth and rinse out your mouth. There might be times when your garlic breath just can't be helped, but ideally, your mouth is fresh and clean before you pucker up. Just as you'd probably straighten up your home before you invited over guests, it only makes sense to clean your mouth before you share it with someone else.^[14]
   
   • Don't worry about ruining the mood by taking a break to brush your teeth. You're showing the person how much you care about them and respect them by going that extra step.
2. Set the scene for romance. It's true that spontaneous kisses are often way more exciting, but there's nothing wrong with prepping your surroundings so a kiss is more likely to happen. Dim the lights, maybe light some candles, and put on some soft, romantic music. Does a romantic atmosphere make up for a lack of kissing skills? Sometimes, it can!^[15]
   
   • If you're out and about, you might keep your eyes open for more romantic-looking spots where the two of you could steal a kiss, such as in the corner of an old, arched doorway or under a streetlight in the mist.
3. Stay mentally present in the moment. You can't be a great kisser if you're mentally checking out. Kissing is about passion, and you can't show passion if you're drafting a grocery list in your head while your lips are connecting. If you're having a hard time staying in the moment, think about keeping a running commentary of the kiss in your head.^[16]
   
   • This is something that you'll get better at with practice. But at the same time, if you're really into the person you're kissing and really in the mood to kiss them, you'll likely find that you don't have much trouble at all keeping your head in the game.
   • Baller agrees that "practice makes perfect. So you're gonna want to kiss a lot to get good at kissing, and you can."^[17]
4. Pay attention to how your partner responds. A good kisser is someone who works with their kissing partner rather than against them. It's not about having specific moves that you impose on others. Rather, you pay attention to what they're doing and try to mirror that. Go at the same pace they do with the same degree of passion and sense of urgency.^[18]
   
   • Baller notes that to be a good kisser, "you want to match your partner, so whatever [their] movements are, it's gonna be like the yin and yang, the way they fit together nicely like that."^[19]
   • "That's the basic rule for kissing well," Baller continues. "Look at it like puzzle pieces... You want to fit together like a puzzle, so it's comfortable and there's a lock or something, you just fit together. It fits nice. It feels good."^[20]

References

1. ↑ https://www.cntraveler.com/story/a-guide-to-kissing-etiquette-around-the-world
2. ↑ https://acdebernadac.com/2019/12/31/do-you-know-about-the-secrets-of-hand-kiss/
3. ↑ https://www.cntraveler.com/story/a-guide-to-kissing-etiquette-around-the-world
4. ↑ https://youtu.be/SwlAdEnT-do?si=jCVZ38bC8em6TZMi
5. ↑ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/sexual-and-reproductive-anatomy
6. ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aBpwrORhKWU
7. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/modern-minds/202309/a-perfect-kiss-the-truth-behind-this-loving-and-sexy-signal
8. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/201907/kissing-adds-years-your-life
9. ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/kissing-and-your-health
10. ↑ https://scholarcommons.scu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1008&context=comm
11. ↑ https://www.pennmedicine.org/updates/blogs/health-and-wellness/2018/february/affection
12. ↑ https://www.pennmedicine.org/updates/blogs/health-and-wellness/2018/february/affection
13. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/modern-minds/202309/a-perfect-kiss-the-truth-behind-this-loving-and-sexy-signal
14. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/modern-minds/202309/a-perfect-kiss-the-truth-behind-this-loving-and-sexy-signal
15. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/at-first-blush/201908/what-real-people-actually-think-about-kissing
16. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/modern-minds/202309/a-perfect-kiss-the-truth-behind-this-loving-and-sexy-signal
17. ↑ [v161265_b01]. 7 February 2020.
18. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/at-first-blush/201908/what-real-people-actually-think-about-kissing
19. ↑ [v161265_b01]. 7 February 2020.
20. ↑ [v161265_b01]. 7 February 2020.

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