How to Make a Fictional LGBT Character

In the writing world, characters tend to fit the mold of being straight and having no trouble with their gender identity. However, in real life, there are many people who don't fit this stereotype. People can be bisexual, gay, lesbian, asexual, or transgender, and it can be tough to create and write a character who has a different gender identity or sexuality than you do. It's possible, however, to accomplish the task and create a well-rounded character who can lead your story.

[Edit]Steps

[Edit]Writing Well

1. Design a character, not just "a lesbian" or "a trans boy." Before deciding on your character's sexuality, gender identity, and relationship status, you'll need to decide on the basics of your character. What's their name and how old are they? What do they look like? What's their role in the story? Keep in mind that your character defines their identity—the identity doesn't define them.^[1]
   
   • Your character should have a personality and backstory that is just as nuanced as those of the straight and cis characters.
2. Read from the community you wish to represent. What are their lives like? What are their struggles, their goals, the things they are grateful for? Which characters do they say are done well, and why? Which stereotypes and/or tropes do they hate? What advice do they have for you? If you take time to listen to the community, you will understand them better.
   
   • Try sending out a message asking for advice on social media. You may get some great tips!
   • If you don't feel comfortable asking LGBT+ people about their experiences, look for LGBT+ public figures who have shared their stories.^[2]
3. Carefully consider your character's development arc. What lesson do they learn? What is their major flaw, and how do they overcome it (if at all)? If they are the main character, facing this problem head-on will mark the climax of the story. This may or may not be related to their identity. For example:
   
   • Lane suffered bullying in childhood, and their dad died in a traumatic car accident. They are afraid to open up to anyone. With the help of their boyfriend, they begin sharing more. The climax is when they finally agree to sing karaoke at a party, only to forget the lyrics. Lane learns that failure is okay, and people can be more forgiving than they know.
   • Dijon lives life according to social norms, working hard and studying medicine like his mom wants. He slowly learns to listen to his own desires, and accepting himself as asexual is part of this. The climax is when he announces to his mother that he is going to the state university to study engineering, not medical school, because this is what he wants.
   • Bayta is trans and bisexual, but this isn't very important to the story. Her character arc is about accepting herself as autistic and learning to ask for help.
4. Map out your character's strengths and weaknesses. Well-rounded characters, like real people, have a mix of positive and negative traits that influence how they behave and how they drive the plot.
   
   • What are they good at? What positive contributions will they make to the plot? How do they help others? Give your character some real strong points, and readers will be reminded that LGBT+ people are talented and worth having around.
   • What does your character struggle with? What flaws can potentially undermine their efforts, and how does it impact the plot? When do they need to ask for help? (These do not need to be related to their identity.) Flaws humanize a character, and can show their development and weak spots.
5. Remember the diversity of people under the LGBT+ umbrella. Everyone is unique, and different people will have different experiences. Tailor your character's past and present to the demands of their story and their personality. There are thousands of ways to be bisexual, gay or transgender, and none of them are bad or wrong.
   
   • Every identity under the umbrella has its own unique experiences. Gay people have different experiences than bisexual people, who have different experiences from nonbinary people, and so on.
   • Consider intersectionality as well. There are LGBT+ people of all ages who are people of color, disabled, overweight, of different religious (or non-religious) backgrounds, from different socioeconomic backgrounds, or so forth. Intersectionality can affect many aspects of an LGBT+ person's life.

[Edit]Writing Characters of Different Sexualities

1. Understand sexuality. Before writing a character who has a different sexual orientation than you do, make sure you have an understanding of sexual orientation and how one sexuality is differentiated by another sexuality. For example, asexuality isn't celibacy—it's lack of sexual attraction, and asexual people can still be in romantic relationships.^[3] Do research on the sexuality that you want your character to be.
   
   • Sexuality is a spectrum, and isn't black-and-white or 50/50. For instance, an otherwise-gay man can have a celebrity crush on a woman, a bisexual or pansexual person can have a gender preference,^[4] and an asexual person can be willing to have sex.
2. Decide on your character's sexuality. Lots of people aren't just "gay" or "straight"—there are many gray areas. Decide on your character's sexual orientation, and if you wish, their romantic orientation—which is who they're romantically attracted to.
   
   • Gay or lesbian characters are attracted to only people of their gender identity. Gay men would be attracted to men, and lesbian women would be attracted to women. (The word "gay" can be used to describe a girl, but the term "lesbian" can't be used for a boy.)^[5]
   • Bisexual or pansexual characters are attracted to two or more genders. The difference between bisexual people and pansexual people depends on the individual's definition of their sexuality. Some people identify as both "bisexual" and "pansexual" though others identify with one term over the other.^[6]
   • Asexual characters lack sexual attraction.^[7] This doesn't mean that they aren't interested in relationships, sex, or anything with a romantic air to it—it simply means that they don't find people sexually attractive.
   • Aromantic characters lack romantic attraction.^[8] These characters may find other characters sexually attractive, but they do not desire a romantic relationship.
   • Straight or heterosexual characters are exclusively attracted to the opposite gender.^[9]
3. Consider their history. Have they come out, and if so, to who? Have they faced any bigotry? How have people reacted to them? What is their attitude towards their sexuality? Figuring out what they have faced and how they have adapted is important to understanding who they are today.
   
4. Decide how open they are about their sexuality. People come out throughout their whole lives, not just a few times.^[10] That being said, some people prefer to share their sexuality more than others. Does your character prefer to be open about their sexuality, keep it relatively hidden, or somewhere in between?
   
   • Your character's history will play a role in how open they are. For instance, someone who was a victim of bullying or abuse or who grew up in a homophobic environment may be more private about their sexuality than a character who grew up in a supportive area and wasn't bullied.
5. Learn about misconceptions about sexuality. Some myths about sexuality can badly influence a character if you aren't aware of them. Things to look out for include:^[11][12]
   
   • It's not always obvious. Being flamboyant or having certain traits doesn't mean someone's gay (or any other orientation), and lacking these traits doesn't mean they aren't.
   • People don't "turn" a sexuality. Someone doesn't "go gay" because of a bad straight relationship or traumatic experience, and it's not possible to make someone straight. (And while some abuse victims may avoid relationships or become sex-averse due to trauma, this is different from being aromantic or asexual.)
   • There's no "man" and "woman" in same-gender relationships. In healthy relationships, partners view each other as equals and responsibilities are typically based on what either person is good at and/or enjoys.
   • Bisexual and pansexual people aren't into everyone they meet. Nor are they more willing to be polyamorous or cheat.
   • Asexuality and aromanticism are real. While some people are late bloomers, it's entirely possible for someone to go through their whole life without experiencing romantic or sexual attraction.
   • Not all asexual people are repulsed by sex. Some people are indifferent to it, prefer to deal with their needs on their own, or will have sex with a partner. It depends on the person.
6. Consider conflicts they might have faced. Characters with different sexualities may encounter conflict related to their orientation, which can affect how they feel about themselves. How do they deal with hostility? How have past interactions affected them? Has it affected their relationships with others, or their ability to trust people? Things they may encounter or have experienced include:
   
   • Confusion about why they're attracted or not attracted to someone
   • Not understanding why relationships don't feel right
   • Feeling pressured to act straight or interested in sex
   • Lack of resources on healthy relationships and safe sex
   • Harassment or fetishization
   • Homophobia, biphobia, panphobia, or aphobia
   • Discrimination
   • Heteronormativity (i.e., people assuming they're straight)

[Edit]Writing Characters of Different Gender Identity

1. Understand gender identity. Gender identity is often confused with assigned sex, but they're different things. Assigned sex (sometimes incorrectly referred to as biological sex) is what sex organs a person was born with, while gender identity is the gender that a person identifies as and wishes to be addressed by.^[13]
   
   • Gender identity and sexuality are different things, and don't correspond. Trans people can be straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, or any other sexual orientation. They're not straight or gay by default.^[14]
   • Gender expression doesn't necessarily indicate your character's gender identity. A boy can wear a skirt or a dress and still identify as a boy, and a girl can bind her chest and wear "boy's" clothes while still identifying as a girl.^[15] While gender expression is often a huge part of a trans or nonbinary person's self-expression, someone's gender is defined by their identity, not by their gender expression.
2. Decide on your character's gender identity. Your character's gender identity may or may not be important to the story. Regardless, if you're writing a character with a different gender identity, you'll need to choose their gender identity.
   
   • Cisgender (sometimes abbreviated to cis) means that a character identifies with the gender that corresponds with their assigned sex - in other words, someone who's assigned female identifying as a girl would be cisgender.^[16]
   • Transgender (sometimes abbreviated to trans) means that a character identifies with a gender that does not correspond with their assigned sex. For example, a person who was assigned male and identifies as female would be a transgender girl and would be referred to as a girl.^[17]
   • Nonbinary (sometimes spelled "non-binary") is an umbrella term that refers to anyone whose gender identity falls outside of exclusively male or female.^[18] The umbrella term transgender encompasses nonbinary people but not all nonbinary people personally identify as transgender.^[19]
   • Agender characters have no gender or have a gender-neutral gender identity.^[20] They may choose to use non-gendered pronouns, such as they/them or xie/xir and/or gendered pronouns (such as she/her or he/him).^[21]
   • Bigender isn't limited to just male and female. A character can feel both like a boy and like no gender at the same time, for example.^[22] They may choose to use different pronouns, including gendered ones (like he/him or she/her) and/or non-gendered ones (like they/them).
   • Someone who is genderfluid can alter between various genders anywhere on the gender spectrum.^[23] They may choose to use different pronouns, including gendered ones (e.g. he/him or she/her) and/or non-gendered ones (e.g. they/them).
   • Demiboys and demigirls only partially identify as boys or girls.^[24]
   • There are also more uncommon identities which you can research.
3. Design your character. Unlike sexuality, sex and gender tends to play more of a role in life from early on. A trans character may have difficulty with having been socialized in gendered ways or growing up as the wrong gender, and if they've gone through puberty, they may have some features that don't match societal beauty standards or that they're self-conscious about.
   
   • Think about how they choose to present their gender. Do they want to appear more masculine, [[Dress More Feminine|more feminine, androgynous, or deliberately ambiguous? How do they go about doing that - does it affect their style or behavior?
   • Is "passing" important to them? Some trans people don't want other people to know they're trans unless necessary, whereas others are fairly open about it. This can also be an issue for nonbinary people whose gender expression leans more masculine or feminine.
   • Consider if and when they were able to have access to hormones and other treatments. A twenty-year-old who started estrogen two months ago will look different from a twenty-year-old who transitioned at age five and had puberty blockers.
   • Without puberty blockers, puberty can be quite traumatic for trans people. Even if they have since gotten hormones and look great, they will probably have many bad memories.
4. Consider whether your character experiences dysphoria, and to what extent. Gender dysphoria is when someone experiences a mismatch between their true gender and their expected gender or behavior. Dysphoria is different for every person, whether it comes to severity or what it affects. Does your character experience dysphoria, and if so, what triggers it?
   
   • Some transgender people experience moderate to severe dysphoria and struggle if they don't have coping mechanisms. Other people experience minimal dysphoria, or don't experience it at all. The majority of trans people also experience gender euphoria, or a positive feeling when their true gender is validated.^[25]
   • Nonbinary people can also experience gender dysphoria and euphoria.
   • Dysphoria can affect different parts of the body and aspects of life. For instance, a trans man might feel dysphoria about how he's perceived socially and about his height and voice, but not his breasts or genitals.
5. Understand common misconceptions. There are many misconceptions about transgender people that cisgender people come up with. Common ones to be ruled out are:
   
   • It's not a phase. It's very uncommon for people to detransition or grow out of it.
   • Not everyone knows right away. Some people know their gender from an early age, but many don't realize it until they reach puberty or adulthood. It's also possible to know earlier on, but not come out due to a lack of knowledge on the subject, internalized transphobia, or living in an unaccepting environment.
   • Trans people aren't "just gay". They can be gay, but gender identity and sexual orientation don't correlate.
   • Nonbinary identities are real. Genders such as nonbinary, bigender, agender, genderfluid, and more are legitimate. Gender identity is a spectrum, not a binary.
   • Not everyone takes hormones or has surgery. Many transgender people are not comfortable with having surgery or taking hormones. Even if they are comfortable with it, other factors can make it impossible to have hormones/surgery, such as health problems, financial issues, or unsupportive/unsafe environment.^[26]
6. Consider how they have adapted. Living in a cis-centric world is difficult for a trans person, especially depending on how accepting the environment is. What tricks have they developed to stay safe? How do they cope? What have they faced in the past, and has it impacted their ability to trust others or feel safe? Common issues faced include:
   
   • Public restroom safety
   • Picking "male" or "female" on documents
   • Street harassment
   • Trying to look "presentable enough" to avoid discrimination (When? How much? Are they a bad person for doing this?)
   • Cruel family members
   • Mental health issues, suicidal thoughts
   • Discrimination

[Edit]Avoiding Stale Writing

LGBT+ representation in fiction too often falls into the same trite plotlines and stereotypes. Here is how to avoid these and write something more interesting and creative.

1. Recognize the stereotypes that exist. The LGBT+ community is very diverse, and people who share a sexuality or gender identity could be very different from each other. Watch out for stereotypes, because these can undermine your ability to write a three-dimensional character. Here are some common tropes:^[27][28][29]
   
   • Feminine gay man, gay man who only serves to be a girl's sidekick
   • Masculine lesbian
   • Gay couple whose only desire is to have children
   • Promiscuous, sly bisexual/confused bisexual
   • Frigid or evil asexual
   • Transgender person who is deceptive or a freak
   • Flamboyant or "camp" LGBT+ characters
2. Remember the difference between sexuality and gender expression. Liking men does not make one feminine, and liking women does not make one masculine. Fiction is filled with gay men who love shopping and detest football, and tough lesbians who play rough sports. Recognize the stereotypes and work on making your character original.
   
   • Of course, there are some feminine gay men and some masculine lesbians. If you are writing one of these characters, make sure that you are giving them plenty of unique and multilayered traits too, so that they are more than a caricature.
3. Choose your words with care. Some terms have been used in degrading and dehumanizing ways, and can be very hurtful and alienating to LGBT+ readers. It can also suggest to readers who aren't in the know that it is okay to use these words to describe someone else. Use compassion when selecting words, and be aware of how this affects the message you send to your readers.
   
   • Always have the narrative refer to a transgender person as their correct gender (the gender that they want to be referred to as), even if others are misgendering the character.
   • If you have a character who uses these words, make it clear in the narrative that this character is being hurtful. For example, if somebody calls Laquisha a "d*ke," show how this upsets her, and/or have someone stand up for her.
4. Make your LGBT+ character a character in their own right. Some writers use LGBT+ characters as one-dimensional plot devices, used to further the development of straight and cis characters, or to serve as sidekicks to them. However, this is disappointing to LGBT+ readers that want to see LGBT+ characters pushing the plot forward themselves.
   
   • This doesn't mean your LGBT+ characters shouldn't teach other characters anything, simply that there should be more to them than only this.
5. Avoid queerbaiting. Queerbaiting is when characters are heavily implied to be LGBT+, sometimes to the point of romantic or sexual activity together, only to not be given LGBT+ identities and never get together (and sometimes be pushed into straight relationships or reveal it was "just a phase"). This is disappointing to many LGBT+ readers, who want to see characters with canon LGBT+ identities and relationships.^[30][31] Instead, give the characters clear LGBT+ identities and relationships.
   
   • Spell out the characters' desires and identities. Does the main character want to kiss the boy in his class because he's curious about what it's like, and later realizes he's gay or bi? Does a "boy" desperately try to grow their hair out to a more ambiguous length and admire the designs of girls' clothing, and admit to their friends that they think they're bigender? Does a girl tell her female best friend that she'd marry her if no guy will - and secretly mean it?
   • Try to avoid characters who "don't like labels". It can seem like you don't want to admit your character is LGBT+. Give them an identity, even if it's just "I'm not straight/cis, but I don't know what I am".
6. Recognize that same-gender couples are, on average, just as sexual as mixed-gender couples are. There is no need to fixate on sex (unless you are writing erotica), nor do you need to avoid showing the characters doing anything more than holding hands.^[32]
   
   • If all the mixed-gender couples are kissing when the bell tolls for New Year's, let the same-gender couple kiss too. They can have the same romantic opportunities.
7. Avoid killing off your LGBT+ character. Killing gay, bisexual, transgender, etc. characters is an old plot line often meant to show that the character is "too good for this sinful earth" and other characters should have treated them better. However, this pattern can send a very unfortunate message to LGBT+ readers: that they're not as worthy or important as non-LGBT+ people, and/or that suicide is the most common and sensible option.^[33][34]
   
   • If your story absolutely requires killing an LGBT+ character, make sure that there are other LGBT+ characters who survive and have bright futures ahead of them.
8. Name the sexuality or gender identity. Tell readers that Lana is bisexual, not just confused, and Richard is asexual, not broken. Labeling their identity can help readers who share the identity feel validated, and help readers who don't have that identity learn and empathize more. You may even have a reader or two who realizes they have that identity thanks to your story.
   

[Edit]Tips

• When creating a character, consider whether the character needs to be cis or straight to help diversify your cast.
• Develop your character as you would with any other character. A character defines their gender or sexuality; their gender or sexuality does not define the character.
• Search for stories by people of the gender or sexuality you'll be writing about, and look for informational blogs or websites about the gender or sexuality. However, beware of bigoted websites.
• It might be a good idea to politely ask an LGBT+ friend or family member to answer any questions you may have about relationships and sexuality, rather than relying on the Internet for answers.
• Stories can be a great way to break stereotypes about LGBT+ people! Consider adding a character with an intersectional identity (such as a disabled LGBT+ character or a LGBT+ character of a religious (or lack thereof) minority); just remember to do your research!
• Creating more than one LGBT+ characters can take the pressure off of one character to represent all people with their identity and show that LGBT+ individuals are diverse.

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[Edit]References

1. ↑ https://refiction.com/articles/lgbt-characters
2. ↑ https://www.writersdigest.com/publishing-insights/6-pitfalls-writing-lgbtqi-characters-teen-fiction
3. ↑ https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-asexual
4. ↑ https://www.healthline.com/health/bisexual-vs-pansexual#learn-more
5. ↑ https://www.verywellmind.com/what-does-lgbtq-mean-5069804
6. ↑ https://www.healthline.com/health/bisexual-vs-pansexual#learn-more
7. ↑ https://www.glaad.org/reference/lgbtq
8. ↑ https://www.glaad.org/reference/lgbtq
9. ↑ https://www.glaad.org/reference/lgbtq
10. ↑ https://www.stonewall.org.uk/node/55084
11. ↑ https://www.stonewall.org.uk/node/55084
12. ↑ https://adm.viu.ca/positive-space/lgtb-myths-facts
13. ↑ http://www.springhole.net/writing/about-sexuality-and-gender-expression.htm
14. ↑ https://www.stonewall.org.uk/node/55084
15. ↑ https://www.verywellhealth.com/gender-expression-5083957
16. ↑ https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-cisgender-3132607
17. ↑ https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-is-transgender-5074206
18. ↑ https://www.glaad.org/reference/transgender
19. ↑ https://www.verywellmind.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-non-binary-or-have-non-binary-gender-4172702
20. ↑ https://www.healthline.com/health/agender#definition
21. ↑ https://www.healthline.com/health/agender#pronouns
22. ↑ https://www.verywellmind.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-non-binary-or-have-non-binary-gender-4172702
23. ↑ https://www.verywellmind.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-non-binary-or-have-non-binary-gender-4172702
24. ↑ https://www.healthline.com/health/different-genders#a-d
25. ↑ https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/06/these-5-myths-about-body-dysphoria-in-trans-folks-are-super-common-but-also-super-wrong/
26. ↑ https://www.stonewall.org.uk/node/55084
27. ↑ http://www.queerty.com/the-over-used-stereotypical-characters-that-most-gay-books-include-20100104
28. ↑ https://refiction.com/articles/lgbt-characters
29. ↑ https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/CampGay
30. ↑ https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2018/02/26/what-is-queerbaiting-everything-you-need-to-know/
31. ↑ https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/queerbaiting-lgbtq-ariana-grande-celebrities-james-franco-jk-rowling-a8862351.html
32. ↑ https://deaddarlings.com/closet-writing-gay-characters/
33. ↑ https://www.springhole.net/writing/moreoffensivemistakes.htm
34. ↑ https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BuryYourGays

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